Minneapolis kink scene

Fetlife might be a better resource to find people locally. There are local groups chatting and advertising events on fet for pretty much any major city.

Wed Jul 18, 2018 11:12 am • 2 Replies • 2414 Views

Alternative Punishments

Please don’t be offended at the reference to abuse and self harm, tattoos and piercings are self harm, manipulation is abuse, not all behaviour requires change, unless it’s having a negative effect on ...

Thu May 31, 2018 9:25 am • 22 Replies • 59985 Views

Alternative Punishments

You've made some great points further up the thread Janet, but equating punishment with self harm and calling it abuse is pretty extreme. I want to make sure that I don't misunderstand your intent tho ...

Wed May 30, 2018 1:36 pm • 22 Replies • 59985 Views

Alternative Punishments

Impact play is rarely used as a serious punishment in my relationship. My dom knows I'm way too into it, and has found plenty of other creative ways to punish me. I think punishments can vary a lot de ...

Tue May 29, 2018 9:08 am • 22 Replies • 59985 Views

Never Experienced With Toys

Please be careful with those buttplugs. When you look for a plug, you always want something with a flared base that's larger than the plug itself. Those particular plugs that OnlineGuy linked have a t ...

Fri May 18, 2018 5:54 pm • 5 Replies • 4112 Views

Virgin

I think it's totally reasonable to consider yourself a submissive without having any bdsm experience. I did for years before I lost my virginity, I really enjoyed watching/reading bdsm porn and rolepl ...

Thu Apr 26, 2018 9:03 am • 14 Replies • 11546 Views

What are your fetishes?

That's quite a list, but I can't be the only one who thinks fetlife's very broad idea of "fetishes" is a bit off base and confusing. Perhaps this is a place where my background in psychology is confli ...

Fri Mar 16, 2018 4:53 pm • 75 Replies • 43662 Views

Forced Tattooing

I love the idea of being marked. It's so hot to have a constant reminder of my submission. I'm always begging to be marked and then having to wear my hair down to cover hickies.

I'm nervous abou ...

Tue Nov 21, 2017 1:26 pm • 8 Replies • 12405 Views