As I stated in an answer to a different topic, I've been in this lifestyle for over 30 years. In that time I have learned a great deal, and one of the main things I have learned is that the sub/slave only allows the Dom/Master to be in charge as long as they feel their needs

I've been in this lifestyle for over 30 years. I've seen so many, of both subs/slaves and doms/Masters, come and go. It seems they are here one day and gone the next.

As some have already stated, ...