Vanilla dating

I get what you mean. People like to be discreet and not really talk about their kinks or it's just they've never explored that life and you want someone experienced. I find my switch tendencies active ...

Sun May 12, 2024 8:43 am • 26 Replies • 2852 Views

Help, any advice?!

I’m seeing a new guy and I need some advice. He’s a total newbie and some things for him are a bit weird. Like he says me sucking the tip of his penis feels weird and is okay but doesn’t really do muc ...

Wed Mar 29, 2023 8:03 am • 3 Replies • 1108 Views

Language is fun

I have three cats and I still have my eyes for someone spanks them a lot. They like it.

I don’t know too much about workplace banter, but I do you know the social setting context of certain terms. ...

Sun Jan 22, 2023 2:26 am • 4 Replies • 532 Views

Language is fun

I pet my cat daily. Spank that butt. Yes I’m talking about an actual cat. But isn’t language fun in how cat also means something else? Just a fun thought I had. Happy petting 😉

Wed Jan 18, 2023 5:05 pm • 4 Replies • 532 Views

Reminder: Pace Yourself!

I would just like clear up a few things and also a my comments to the many replies this post got.

The person I was talking about was someone who recently had left the cage and came back. So upon n ...

Sat Jan 07, 2023 1:49 am • 15 Replies • 2552 Views

Reminder: Pace Yourself!

In the life of BDSM, one must be willing to adhere to a different conception of time. Pacing is not a very well practiced process among others, at least, that's what I am finding here. When getting to ...

Mon Dec 26, 2022 7:39 pm • 15 Replies • 2552 Views

HAPPY NATIONAL ORGASM DAY

How are you celebrating? I'm thinking some good food, some good reading, some playful kinky art and a happy ending.

Sun Jul 31, 2022 9:14 pm • 5 Replies • 562 Views

Words of Affirmation

Hey so I’m curious about word choice.
What do you say or do to your submissive to make them feel appreciated and protected?
Like if they were feeling blue?

Fri Jun 10, 2022 12:01 pm • 12 Replies • 4465 Views

Just 4 fun: Music. What are you listening to right now?

He loves me by Jill Scott

Mon Jun 06, 2022 4:00 am • 261 Replies • 45161 Views

*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

Writing a intro to me feels like trying to come up with a great opening line for a novel. There's this intense pressure and as said: first impressions are everything. So I'll try my best.

I go by m ...

Sun Jun 05, 2022 11:23 am • 3173 Replies • 1008867 Views