Friendship within the Lifestyle

I think if they are lifestyle friends and they respect your dynamic if in one and don't try to interfere, and respect your choices and kinks.
I belive friendships are always important to have around ...

Thu Mar 13, 2025 9:52 am • 7 Replies • 1568 Views

Brat Taming Advice

Ah one does not tame a brat they handle them

Fri Mar 07, 2025 8:47 am • 16 Replies • 6776 Views

How to deal with Loneliness as a Submissive

This can be hard, but I think for me I just try to keep myself busy educating myself and doing things that make me happy. Reminding myself of who I am and what my worth is. I don't look for Doms but r ...

Mon Mar 03, 2025 8:01 am • 10 Replies • 3138 Views

Dominant women on the rise?

I personally find that the majority of Dominants I have come across are insta Doms or bed room only or simply kinksters. I think comming across anyone who truly values the lifestlye and understands it ...

Mon Feb 17, 2025 5:57 am • 17 Replies • 3898 Views

AuDHD asks: Got specific examples of D/s in everyday life?

Some times I would have free time in a sence where I would write or play with my ropes or find something else to do to keep my mind busy and try not to dwell on him not being available. I do have a ch ...

Tue Feb 11, 2025 3:18 am • 8 Replies • 1641 Views

AuDHD asks: Got specific examples of D/s in everyday life?

Hmmm, being ASD myself I find in a dynamic in need TPE, I find it grounding when I have structure and routine . I get lost with out it, change is hard for me so I rely on that alot from my Dominant. A ...

Mon Feb 10, 2025 3:28 pm • 8 Replies • 1641 Views

Q for female subs - Which punishment?

Hmmm I'm not sure about the options here.
One it sounds like abuse ?‍♀️ unless this is something that is not a hard limit and was discussed while vetting.
To me personally knowing that i have disapp ...

Fri Feb 07, 2025 8:17 am • 70 Replies • 19544 Views

Why do some seek a bottom to top

I've had a few lately do the same to me lol
I don't have a Dominant bone in my body and crave that loss of control.
So you talk abit and boom they switch.
Um what am I ment to do with that? Sit in ...

Fri Jan 24, 2025 9:37 am • 9 Replies • 1469 Views

Advice

I'm not that long into the lifestlye myself and still learning, but I think when it comes to this lifestlye communication is so important and being comfortable knowing that you can ask questions. I th ...

Fri Jan 24, 2025 5:17 am • 21 Replies • 2878 Views

Advice

I don't think you being to pushy at all, this is what vetting someone is all about.. If it was me I would ask for more of a in-depth explanation.
Please remember when your vetting you are both equal ...

Fri Jan 24, 2025 5:05 am • 21 Replies • 2878 Views