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Question about Master/slave dynamics

The use of labels is, again, a whole other argument. Which will most likely never be settled.

As Obi-Wan says in "Return of the Jedi": Everything is true, from a certain point of view.

You ...

Thu Jan 15, 2026 3:40 pm • 15 Replies • 3396 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Question about Master/slave dynamics

Like any other relationship in the Lifestyle, it all depends on what the people in a given relationship defines it as.

For myself, A D/s relationship evolves into a M/s one once the collar is a ...

Thu Jan 15, 2026 3:02 pm • 15 Replies • 3396 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Question about Master/slave dynamics

You are being told a great amount of pure crap.

There is no such thing as "no limits" slave. That bullshit is started by morons who have no idea of what they are doing and do not care. Abusers p ...

Thu Jan 15, 2026 2:38 pm • 15 Replies • 3396 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Question about Master/slave dynamics

Pee Drinking

So here is a question:

Do males enjoy drinking pee more than females?

Sat Jan 10, 2026 4:08 pm • 18 Replies • 10158 Views

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TopekaDom

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Fetish

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Pee Drinking

I'm completely new to all this, just asking a question.

There is one very important foundation to all BDSM play and that is *Consent*.

This!

Thu Jan 01, 2026 1:40 am • 15 Replies • 2739 Views

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TopekaDom

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Absolute Beginners

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I'm completely new to all this, just asking a question.

What Do People Think About Fetishes?

The main thing is to understand what is a kink and what is a fetish. Way too many people confuse the two.

Fetishes drive you

Kinks are something you can do but can live without.

Wed Dec 31, 2025 3:28 am • 14 Replies • 2598 Views

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TopekaDom

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Fetish

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What Do People Think About Fetishes?

A question

And there is the main argument I have had with a great deal of people over the decades of my involvement in the lifestyle:

"Once you take the physical out of the relationship, D/s still works". ...

Sun Dec 28, 2025 10:34 pm • 9 Replies • 2054 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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A question

People using AI chat to engage (manipulate?) on meet sites

This is both sad and funny at the same time.

I'll get to the latter part in a bit.

First off: I find it somewhat unsurprising. As I have progressed in the lifestyle, I have seen people of bot ...

Fri Dec 19, 2025 9:18 pm • 17 Replies • 3542 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

Topic

People using AI chat to engage (manipulate?) on meet sites

What do you think a dominant owes their partner?”

Being the Old School bastard I am, I think "Owe" is a very correct term for the obligation a Dom has to their property.

As the lifestyle has evolved during the time I have been part of it, supp ...

Thu Dec 18, 2025 11:28 pm • 29 Replies • 6192 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

Topic

What do you think a dominant owes their partner?”

Love
Honor
Cherishment

also

Structure
Discipline
Commitment

Thu Dec 18, 2025 6:27 pm • 29 Replies • 6192 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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What do you think a dominant owes their partner?”