Form post not published?

Hello. I attempted to post about ruined orgasms a few days ago but it seems to either have not published or has been removed. Wondering why…

Tue Apr 16, 2024 2:33 pm • 2 Replies • 151 Views

Personals

As someone who was active on the personals I found them to be admittedly somewhat defeatist. Given that I’m actively looking, I’d try responding to ads and very often got nothing back. It felt like an ...

Sat Mar 30, 2024 3:00 pm • 27 Replies • 2501 Views

Break ups.. how do you deal with it?

Regardless of your position in the dynamic recognize that you’re justified in your feelings. You can feel sad, upset, wonderment, sorrow, glee, whatever the case may be. Embrace these feelings and rec ...

Sun Oct 31, 2021 3:54 pm • 7 Replies • 2116 Views

Just 4 Fun: four letter words

Tube

Fri Oct 22, 2021 2:54 pm • 70 Replies • 12035 Views

ABCBDSM: Let's Play!

O - orgasm denial

Fri Oct 22, 2021 2:32 pm • 113 Replies • 34495 Views

ABCBDSM: Let's Play!

M - Mistress

Fri Oct 22, 2021 11:57 am • 113 Replies • 34495 Views

Red flags? Green flags?

So I’ve been red-flagged previously and can tell you that my grammar was called out as well as my, shall we say, disconnectedness from the community here (I don’t post in forums much and don’t write b ...

Wed Oct 20, 2021 5:59 pm • 48 Replies • 7531 Views

Thoughts on Fetlife

This. Total FinDomme central.

I joined it ages ago, not a fan. Full of findommes and gatekeepers.

Much prefer it here, everyone is just much more approachable and open and the mods/admin take c ...

Mon Oct 18, 2021 3:01 pm • 57 Replies • 17483 Views

What are some non-sexual traits or things that turn you guys on?

Honesty and open mind

Sat Sep 25, 2021 2:26 pm • 119 Replies • 28724 Views

Re: Is Anal Play Taboo For Young, Straight Subs?

Early on I was very resistant to it, but around 29 i tried it abs loved it. At one point got a vibe to use.

My fear was more of the ‘what if I enjoy it too much” variety, along with feeling like it ...

Sun Sep 12, 2021 7:25 pm • 76 Replies • 33094 Views