What are some non-sexual traits or things that turn you guys on?

Honesty and open mind

Sat Sep 25, 2021 2:26 pm • 119 Replies • 31777 Views

Re: Is Anal Play Taboo For Young, Straight Subs?

Early on I was very resistant to it, but around 29 i tried it abs loved it. At one point got a vibe to use.

My fear was more of the ‘what if I enjoy it too much” variety, along with feeling like it ...

Sun Sep 12, 2021 7:25 pm • 76 Replies • 35689 Views

Ad responses

Slightly venting here.

I’ve tried to respond to personal ads from Dommes but often do not get a response. I take the time to read through ads and profile specs to ensure I’m messaging someone who I ...

Sun Sep 12, 2021 7:18 pm • 8 Replies • 3090 Views

online inspiration

I’ve been in online D/s for many years and can definitely give you some tips. If you prefer to message privately I’m happy to do so.

What I will tell you though is you need to make conversations ha ...

Sun Apr 25, 2021 5:46 pm • 12 Replies • 6373 Views

Personal Ad for Subs to Subs

Hey.

i'm a switch with sub tendencies, and definitely enjoy chatting with some friends / allies here. i find that so many other sites aren't all that condusive to chatter.

Muzzled, to speak to y ...

Sun Apr 18, 2021 10:53 pm • 19 Replies • 4667 Views

Real Time and Online : What's your prefence and why?

i'm in a similar situation to baedrin. online is my outlet, particularly in a very vanilla R/T sex list. It hasn't agreed with many i've tried with and i get that, but it's all i can do.

Wed Jul 15, 2020 7:56 pm • 70 Replies • 35038 Views

Re: Do true subs males exist anymore? This was asked in sub

I have seen responses on challenges in another thread and didn't see that it was geared to males until after I responded, but was intetesting. So here it is in reference to Dominant Women for sub/slav ...

Sun Dec 22, 2019 5:29 pm • 57 Replies • 25325 Views

anyone actually looking?

I feel like this site isn't working. The Dommes that post in the personal ads don't seem to respond to messages. I haven't had much luck. Anyone else finding this too?

thanks for letting me mini ve ...

Sun Dec 22, 2019 5:26 pm • 11 Replies • 6866 Views

Real Time and Online : What's your prefence and why?

im' online only. real life doesn't allow for it.

Fri Aug 02, 2019 8:07 pm • 70 Replies • 35038 Views

pictures

To me, if you're meeting someone, a picture won't do - it has to be video. Maybe I watched one too many Catfish episodes but there's an inherent danger. A photo can be stolen or staged with a standin.

Thu Mar 08, 2018 6:09 am • 18 Replies • 10365 Views