Your take of a Submissive????

*grinds teeth*

So we, as human beings, have to conform to the dictionary definition of a term? Well, fuck. Nobody told me that at the beginning of my journey several years ago. *insert a heavy dos ...

Mon Dec 10, 2018 9:10 am • 44 Replies • 24376 Views

Your take of a Submissive????

@masterbear
Totally agreed.
I believe the issue here is people labeling themselves something that they are not. Nothing to do with someone else labeling them

With all due respect, who is to sa ...

Mon Dec 10, 2018 5:37 am • 44 Replies • 24376 Views

Your take of a Submissive????

I can only speak for myself.....so here goes.

I'm submissive to ONE. I gave Him my submission. I'm a rather dominant personality at the best of times, and a real control freak. Does that make NOT ...

Mon Dec 10, 2018 4:11 am • 44 Replies • 24376 Views

How did you get or pick your screen(or lifestyle) name?

I was given my name - Irezumi basically means 'insert ink' or 'tattoo' in Japanese. He said it's because I get under your skin. LOL

Sat Sep 22, 2018 9:03 am • 267 Replies • 115109 Views

Cage Chat Room Munch

This is a great idea! I'll just have to work out what day and time it would be for me.....downfall of being in the future. (Aussie)

When selecting a time we tried to pick the best one to cover most ...

Wed Jan 24, 2018 3:13 pm • 61 Replies • 46363 Views

Cage Chat Room Munch

This is a great idea! I'll just have to work out what day and time it would be for me.....downfall of being in the future. (Aussie)

Wed Jan 24, 2018 2:45 pm • 61 Replies • 46363 Views

Decorum: Does labeling yourself a submissive mean strangers should treat you like one?

This is something I have real issues with. I agree with MissBonnie. Completely.

Personally, I am submissive to ONE. The ONE I chose to submit to. I often try not to place a 'label' on myself, bec ...

Sat Jan 20, 2018 8:41 am • 21 Replies • 15644 Views

New guy here.

Makes perfect sense. My submission to Him is beyond the bedroom - and His Dominance isn't about using me for whatever he wants. It is much deeper than that. So I understand the kind of connection you ...

Fri Jan 05, 2018 2:46 pm • 3 Replies • 6437 Views

New guy here.

Hello fellow Aussie!

I am new to the site, but not to the Lifestyle. My real life D/s relationship actually started online - we met in a chat room, although not a lifestyle chat room. We also have ...

Fri Jan 05, 2018 1:28 pm • 3 Replies • 6437 Views

Virtual BDSM

The virtual world of BDSM, in my experience, can be a minefield. That said, it CAN work - IF you take it for what it is. I have a real life relationship with my Dom, and we both also have an online re ...

Fri Dec 29, 2017 4:04 am • 11 Replies • 18060 Views