What to do?

@HardSMac,
Although I lean poly personally myself, as you do, I have a hard time with the stance you've presented here. You are entitled to your own opinion, but attacking the belief of a large popul ...

Wed Oct 09, 2019 2:58 am • 29 Replies • 11861 Views

Inappropriate safe words

Ahhh, that I can see! Okay...she right! 😁

Fri Oct 04, 2019 4:54 am • 30 Replies • 12173 Views

Inappropriate safe words

Dunno about that @Auria, I'd dare say there are folks that would get off on being called Mein Fuhrer...

Fri Oct 04, 2019 3:07 am • 30 Replies • 12173 Views

Inappropriate safe words

Hey @lostandfound,
The thread is more about silly/goofy safewords but you did raise a good point of consideration for legit conversation. Your idea of using given names for serious discussion is a go ...

Thu Oct 03, 2019 5:11 pm • 30 Replies • 12173 Views

Is it ok to ask?

I think you've just identified yourself as prey who is in need of a primal hunter. There is nothing wrong with that at all. It's your kink. Everything you have already been through, although it was pa ...

Sun Sep 22, 2019 1:15 am • 31 Replies • 17097 Views

How do I do this?

Hello Flippyn, you have asked for advice here (a very mature and reasoned thing to do, btw) so I will provide you some of mine. I just actually discussed the same concept with another new person and h ...

Thu Sep 05, 2019 4:42 pm • 12 Replies • 7297 Views

Dominant Men vs Dominant Women -why are the rules different?

There are probably fewer scammers/ game players in the real scene, but you need to cautious there too. Pretty much anyone who immediately offers anything without getting to know you first is much more ...

Thu Sep 05, 2019 2:27 am • 17 Replies • 8854 Views

Dominant Men vs Dominant Women -why are the rules different?

Going to go out on a limb, dear, but you obviously aren't talking to all of us. And while I'm Domme-lite, without exception the full on Dommes I'm friendly with are blatantly NOT interested in 'tribut ...

Thu Sep 05, 2019 2:01 am • 17 Replies • 8854 Views

Is it ok to ask?

Okay, this one I have to come in on. My response may well be contentious and if so bring it, but follow our guidelines here and speak your peace...

That said, my view is simple and clear. If anal i ...

Sat Aug 31, 2019 7:22 pm • 31 Replies • 17097 Views

What names you like to be called/call your sub?

I totally glom on to Pathfinder's point, Indigo. It's great that you want to provide something he needs, and there is nothing wrong with expanding your own comfort zone and repertoire, but it's always ...

Sun Aug 25, 2019 5:05 pm • 10 Replies • 18575 Views