Getting responses to messages

They have to be genuine, friendly, no agenda. Most subs here will, like me, get millions of the following:

1) Hi, can we chat? (err...about what?)
2) Just wanted to say i love your pics, you look ...

Wed Oct 16, 2024 7:27 am • 24 Replies • 2114 Views

Jeeze

Do you know the amount of time and effort it takes to come across as a fake dom?

My god it is exausting

Damn. You're good. You fooled me....

😉😁 X

Tue Oct 15, 2024 4:47 am • 36 Replies • 2689 Views

Crowding while playing

An ex of mine used to walk quietly up to people too close, lean in to them, and say, 'back the fuck off' he had a rather menacing way about him and didn't give a toss about being labelled a troublemak ...

Sat Oct 12, 2024 11:22 pm • 9 Replies • 487 Views

Jeeze

The ones who hurt are the ones who have learned how to tailor their online behaviour to reel a person in. Play the game just right, convince you that they're serious and understand the emotional impor ...

Sat Oct 12, 2024 11:16 pm • 36 Replies • 2689 Views

Is Height a Fetish for you?

"... feel that height is as important as any other physical trait, or even as far as physical activities such as bondage or flogging or what have you?"

Yes. As important as any other physical trai ...

Mon Oct 07, 2024 3:59 am • 22 Replies • 1627 Views

Experience

TE , what do you mean females weren't allowed to talk in chat please?

Mon Sep 30, 2024 2:41 am • 13 Replies • 1165 Views

Re: In response to your comment.

Honestly, I often feel like I'm treated like a kink dispenser... I have been here for years, looking for someone to start online and eventually become in real life but all I find (and I had my profile ...

Sun Sep 29, 2024 1:25 am • 40 Replies • 3476 Views

Sub healing

I think there is beauty in any good relationship. Define that as you wish, because how long is a piece of string?

I think what's not okay is to go into any new relationship, vanilla or ds, with unr ...

Mon Sep 23, 2024 12:46 am • 13 Replies • 1329 Views

Long distance domme/sub relationships

In my experience, if you build something slowly, something good, and agree to be guided by your LDR domme, you can navigate your local scene, together, and find relevant partners, with relevant exper ...

Mon Sep 23, 2024 12:34 am • 4 Replies • 581 Views

Intimacy and connection

Sex and sex acts can be entirely separate to intimacy for me. Though I believe most would say that doesnt make sense (not in here: it'll make a good deal of sense to this self selecting group).

Int ...

Tue Sep 17, 2024 2:39 am • 7 Replies • 640 Views