Is Public Scening really a case of showing off?

From a subspace point of view, it can be incredibly erotic. Freeing, liberating. Yes exhibitionism, but more than that. Being shown off, being exhibited. The control in action of being made to play in ...

Fri Aug 02, 2024 2:05 pm • 16 Replies • 1559 Views

Long Term Bondage/slavery/submission

Not sure if it will help, and I admit to being a hardcore skeptic, but if I were in this situation my gut would be screaming.
I would encourage her to find housing near you and build up to the year ...

Thu Aug 01, 2024 8:27 am • 12 Replies • 1570 Views

Long Term Bondage/slavery/submission

An aside...TD, you will never know how hard i just had to bite my fucking lip. Not about your prior situation. I think you know....

Thu Aug 01, 2024 8:26 am • 12 Replies • 1570 Views

Long Term Bondage/slavery/submission

Flat and hard no.

You do not know enough. And have too much to lose.

Fantasy vs reality.

Put your cock away and use your head. Yes, the big one.

Thu Aug 01, 2024 8:20 am • 12 Replies • 1570 Views

meaningless tasks

It’s a fine-balancing act. I have been on the other end of the scale (my most recent experience), where it began to feel like he was just wanting a mummy surrogate.
My original desire came from insp ...

Thu Aug 01, 2024 12:48 am • 38 Replies • 2620 Views

meaningless tasks

Ouch Bunnie. Beautiful to have experienced that, and I know exactly how you feel. Just such a shame regarding the circumstances, as it's really rare to find a man who inspires such calm and willing ob ...

Wed Jul 31, 2024 11:33 pm • 38 Replies • 2620 Views

meaningless tasks

But if a dominant is not mindful, and doesn't understand the psychology of the game they are playing, then it will become meaningless sooner or later.

Yeah, I get being mindful, but you can ...

Wed Jul 31, 2024 6:44 am • 38 Replies • 2620 Views

meaningless tasks

So you're saying any task can be rendered meaningless or meaningful. How does a Dom make a meaningful task meaningless?

By not acknowledging it. This could be in any manner of ways. But if a ...

Wed Jul 31, 2024 3:22 am • 38 Replies • 2620 Views

meaningless tasks

Any task can be given meaning to a submissive, if it means something to the dominant in question.


Just as a meaningful task can be rendered meaningless by a dominant, from a submissive's perspect ...

Wed Jul 31, 2024 1:40 am • 38 Replies • 2620 Views

Re: How much should I Share on first contact?

People may have asked and answered, but I still wonder how much of myself should I share for an online connection. Ex: All Doms I approach teel me to send pictures, my body measurements, contact detai ...

Wed Jul 31, 2024 12:17 am • 22 Replies • 2234 Views