Enmeshment

I absolutely disagree with your definition of what it means to be a slave. No one can dictate what a slave is, how much ego or personality they have, how they are referred to, or if they have a right ...

Sat Jan 25, 2025 6:44 pm • 19 Replies • 1829 Views

Advice

Thank you, your absolutely right
I didn't disqualify the person because he said he worked a lot which i understood but at this point, i think its safe to assume he probably is only interested in the ...

Sat Jan 25, 2025 8:58 am • 21 Replies • 1448 Views

Advice

This is my person take on your situation. ANY reluctance to communicate is an instant disqualification for me. I understand people have jobs, families, and lives. I don't expect an instant answer. The ...

Sat Jan 25, 2025 6:01 am • 21 Replies • 1448 Views

Enmeshment

I absolutely disagree with your definition of what it means to be a slave. No one can dictate what a slave is, how much ego or personality they have, how they are referred to, or if they have a right ...

Fri Jan 24, 2025 3:43 am • 19 Replies • 1829 Views

How to help spinning sub

I just remembered. Another technique you can have her do is focus intently on what she imagines is the absolute worst case scenario if whatever it is actually happens. Then have her walk through the s ...

Fri Jan 10, 2025 10:34 pm • 21 Replies • 1589 Views

How to help spinning sub

Teach her some guided relaxation, body scan, progressive relaxation, visualization, and meditation/focus techniques. I have been teaching these to my kids for years and use them on myself. What she's ...

Fri Jan 10, 2025 10:30 pm • 21 Replies • 1589 Views

Do you consider yourself Property

I personally view the words, "owned" and "property" as the greatest compliments a dominant can give me. Those and collaring are, to me, the goal of any dynamic. They signify the Master's protection, c ...

Fri Jan 10, 2025 12:03 pm • 18 Replies • 2459 Views

Is Height a Fetish for you?

I'm a 6-foot tall woman and I have never been with a man who is taller than me. Everyone has been shorter even in my vanilla experience. It's simply a numbers game.

Although being with someone tall ...

Fri Jan 10, 2025 11:50 am • 32 Replies • 3671 Views

Trust

Just my two cents here, but I think the idea that you should just automatically trust people just because is an absolutely terrible idea. Just because someone shows up in your life doesn't mean you sh ...

Mon Jan 06, 2025 9:47 am • 16 Replies • 1495 Views

Tagging members in forum posts

which I am fairly confident is not anyone's username in here)



You would be surprised. I have seen some doozies on here.

Sat Dec 28, 2024 11:23 am • 7 Replies • 589 Views