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My kinks are beginning to scare me

From what I've heard, it will take you quite a bit of time to find the right bull anyway. You will probably get more clarity in that time to know if this is right or not.

Tue Oct 07, 2025 7:30 pm • 12 Replies • 2099 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Femdom

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My kinks are beginning to scare me

Re: My kinks are beginning to scare me

my wife and I have been engaging in bdsm off and on for two years. it was originally my idea, and she has gotten very comfortable being the dominant one. For instance, I have been in chastity for 93 d ...

Tue Oct 07, 2025 12:43 am • 12 Replies • 2099 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Femdom

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My kinks are beginning to scare me

Enmeshment

I absolutely disagree with your definition of what it means to be a slave. No one can dictate what a slave is, how much ego or personality they have, how they are referred to, or if they have a right ...

Sat Jan 25, 2025 6:44 pm • 19 Replies • 3563 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Enmeshment

Advice

Thank you, your absolutely right
I didn't disqualify the person because he said he worked a lot which i understood but at this point, i think its safe to assume he probably is only interested in the ...

Sat Jan 25, 2025 8:58 am • 21 Replies • 3448 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Generally Speaking

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Advice

This is my person take on your situation. ANY reluctance to communicate is an instant disqualification for me. I understand people have jobs, families, and lives. I don't expect an instant answer. The ...

Sat Jan 25, 2025 6:01 am • 21 Replies • 3448 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Generally Speaking

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Advice

Enmeshment

Fri Jan 24, 2025 3:43 am • 19 Replies • 3563 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Enmeshment

How to help spinning sub

I just remembered. Another technique you can have her do is focus intently on what she imagines is the absolute worst case scenario if whatever it is actually happens. Then have her walk through the s ...

Fri Jan 10, 2025 10:34 pm • 21 Replies • 3256 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Generally Speaking

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How to help spinning sub

Teach her some guided relaxation, body scan, progressive relaxation, visualization, and meditation/focus techniques. I have been teaching these to my kids for years and use them on myself. What she's ...

Fri Jan 10, 2025 10:30 pm • 21 Replies • 3256 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Generally Speaking

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How to help spinning sub

Do you consider yourself Property

I personally view the words, "owned" and "property" as the greatest compliments a dominant can give me. Those and collaring are, to me, the goal of any dynamic. They signify the Master's protection, c ...

Fri Jan 10, 2025 12:03 pm • 18 Replies • 4440 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Do you consider yourself Property

Is Height a Fetish for you?

I'm a 6-foot tall woman and I have never been with a man who is taller than me. Everyone has been shorter even in my vanilla experience. It's simply a numbers game.

Although being with someone tall ...

Fri Jan 10, 2025 11:50 am • 32 Replies • 12735 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Fetish

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Is Height a Fetish for you?