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Squirting: Biology, Myth, and the Pressure to Perform

I squirt a lot and I didn't learn how to do it until I was in my 50s. I don't believe squirting is merely a physical response. It is very much a conscious decision on my part. It's something I have to ...

Sat Oct 24, 2026 6:27 pm • 4 Replies • 98 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Generally Speaking

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Squirting: Biology, Myth, and the Pressure to Perform

Gorean

Yes, there are many, but they don't always advertise it or call it that to people who don't know what the Gorean lifestyle is.

Sat Sep 12, 2026 10:45 pm • 6 Replies • 292 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Generally Speaking

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Gorean

Should subs be allowed to lead communal spaces, rather than doms?

I think anyone who thinks dominants should automatically take a leadership role in the community is displaying a fundamental misunderstanding of the BDSM world. A sub is only submissive to their chose ...

Fri Sep 04, 2026 11:40 am • 10 Replies • 641 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Femdom

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Should subs be allowed to lead communal spaces, rather than doms?

Paid Dominatrixes

Mon Aug 24, 2026 11:33 am • 23 Replies • 3794 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Femdom

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Paid Dominatrixes

Mon Aug 24, 2026 7:09 am • 23 Replies • 3794 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Femdom

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Paid Dominatrixes

Enema Questions

I also used 2L of water and that was too much, so maybe you should start small and work up depending on how she responds to it.

Sat Aug 22, 2026 5:12 am • 10 Replies • 1245 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Equipment & Toys

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Enema Questions

I did it for two years with my former dominant. I did it once a week before we met. I discovered that there was a point of diminishing returns whereby the procedure brought down more material from hig ...

Fri Aug 14, 2026 9:54 am • 10 Replies • 1245 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Equipment & Toys

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Enema Questions

The new Mail system

This system utterly sucks. I just closed a message thread and now it won't open the entire thread. It stops at the first page. The old system worked way better.

Thu Aug 13, 2026 6:40 am • 19 Replies • 2394 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Technical Support

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The new Mail system

Is this going to be a premium feature?

Sat Aug 08, 2026 9:27 pm • 19 Replies • 2394 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Technical Support

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The new Mail system

Best Glycerine Free Rimming Lube

Further to what Bunnie said, the objective of rimming is to use the flat part of the tongue to soften and relax the sphincter muscles. This will greatly depend on you learning to relax and open those ...

Sat Aug 08, 2026 8:50 pm • 14 Replies • 1552 Views

Author

B L O N D I E

Forum

Equipment & Toys

Topic

Best Glycerine Free Rimming Lube