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✨ If BDSM were a holiday… what would it look like?

WOW! That' a tough one. Through the decades, my Dom & I have attended many events and no two were alike.

We're a Femdom couple, so my rituals, etc. will differ from a male Dom/female sub dyna ...

Sun Mar 08, 2026 4:24 pm • 8 Replies • 854 Views

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pioneer man

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Lifestyle BDSM

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✨ If BDSM were a holiday… what would it look like?

Punishments

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SAYING THIS.

I have been a Femdom sub for years and punishment has never been a part of our dynamic. Unless someone has a punishment kink, there should never be a need for pu ...

Tue Feb 24, 2026 5:15 pm • 16 Replies • 1748 Views

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pioneer man

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Punishments

Matchmaker

It could help some people, but personally I'm not favorable to the idea if you are looking for a D/s relationship.

As a Femdom sub for years that has attended many events, both in person & on ...

Thu Feb 05, 2026 10:59 pm • 4 Replies • 915 Views

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pioneer man

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Matchmaker

body inclusive self tying resources, books, etc

We follow a Shibari expert named Julieta Chiara. If interested, just Google her.

Sun Jan 25, 2026 10:48 pm • 3 Replies • 650 Views

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pioneer man

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Fetish

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body inclusive self tying resources, books, etc

Edging vs Ruined Orgasm

Everyone's comments have been right on the mark. I'll give you a little perspective from my own experience.

My Dom actually used edging as part of her training me into full submission. Edging pu ...

Tue Jan 06, 2026 5:08 pm • 9 Replies • 1282 Views

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pioneer man

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Generally Speaking

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Edging vs Ruined Orgasm

Cum play

angelaffliction: BTW: I should have added - Both of us have had experienced each other's fluids. She has had me cum on her and she has rubbed on me after I get her good and wet. Both of us have enj ...

Sun Nov 16, 2025 5:06 pm • 7 Replies • 1256 Views

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pioneer man

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Absolute Beginners

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Cum play

First let be up front with you: I have been a 24/7 live-in Femdom sub for years, so I coming from that perspective. Whether it is my cum or her vaginal fluid, she decides what will happen with it.
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Sat Nov 15, 2025 5:11 pm • 7 Replies • 1256 Views

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pioneer man

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Absolute Beginners

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Cum play

What does slavery mean?

For years, I have been a Femdom sub that is totally dedicated to my Dom. Many people get hung up on what different terms in BDSM mean.

The best thing I heard was from Board Certified Sexologist ...

Wed Aug 27, 2025 3:54 pm • 13 Replies • 6989 Views

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pioneer man

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Lifestyle BDSM

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What does slavery mean?

What’s the makeup here?

Quite honestly, I have never heard anyone describe the type of sub that I am.

My Dom took three years to train me into a complete 24/7 Femdom live-in sub. Her method put me into what J.M. Scott, i ...

Tue Aug 19, 2025 10:26 pm • 17 Replies • 9293 Views

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pioneer man

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Generally Speaking

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What’s the makeup here?

Red flag behavior : The Carrot

Well, here's my opinion. As a Femdom sub (have been for years), I have been to many erotic events through the years and met people from all walks of life - blue collar, business, and even national ce ...

Mon Aug 11, 2025 4:02 pm • 9 Replies • 5150 Views

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pioneer man

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Absolute Beginners

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Red flag behavior : The Carrot