Attending my first party

Can anyone offer advice on dress? As it's my first party, I'm looking to wear all black. Are smart black trousers with a smart black t-shirt acceptable? Is wearing smart brown shoes acceptable or must ...

Fri Jun 13, 2025 12:05 am • 13 Replies • 5302 Views

Attending my first party

So I would treat it just like any party? If I see a women I fancy I would go and chat to her. If she is Dom, we could discuss whether we could do a scene together, and we would have a discuss the spec ...

Mon Jun 09, 2025 12:27 pm • 13 Replies • 5302 Views

Attending my first party

I agree with what everyone else has stated above.
Each party I have been to has explained the rules to everyone and saftey before the party begins.
In regards to meeting a beautiful Domme please rem ...

Mon Jun 09, 2025 12:23 pm • 13 Replies • 5302 Views

Attending my first party

Also as a newbie is it better to turn up early or later? If early I will be there sitting by myself, if later everyone will be there and I would feel less self conscious, but I worry that people will ...

Sun Jun 08, 2025 7:40 pm • 13 Replies • 5302 Views

Attending my first party

So I would treat it just like any party? If I see a women I fancy I would go and chat to her. If she is Dom, we could discuss whether we could do a scene together, and we would have a discuss the spec ...

Sun Jun 08, 2025 7:38 pm • 13 Replies • 5302 Views

Attending my first party

Hence why it is a scene. I'm getting it more now.

Any chance of helping me with another issue. If I see a beautiful Dom who I want to abuse me, how would I instigate a conversation? Or do I wait f ...

Sun Jun 08, 2025 5:16 pm • 13 Replies • 5302 Views

Attending my first party

Thanks so much to the both of you for the advise. I particularly appreciate your advise not to interrupt a scene.

Sun Jun 08, 2025 4:50 pm • 13 Replies • 5302 Views

Attending my first party

Hi there,

I’m attending my first BDSM party next week, and I’m incredibly excited to start exploring the scene! I’ll be attending in a submissive role and would really appreciate any advice you mig ...

Sat Jun 07, 2025 11:45 pm • 13 Replies • 5302 Views