a question for Doms

Well, what was it that made you become a sub??? I am a Dominant! Its not a role for me it's who and what I am. Type A personality, driven and a leader.

When I first discovered BDSM in 1978, it ...

Wed Aug 06, 2025 5:59 pm • 28 Replies • 11865 Views

BDSM Checklist

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Thu Jul 31, 2025 2:00 am • 7 Replies • 3771 Views

BDSM Checklist

Seems the people here want to be contacted!!! Very different from other sites I've seen! Usually contact without permission gets you blocked, or publicly flogged, or both!!!

Now the need for prem ...

Thu Jul 31, 2025 12:18 am • 7 Replies • 3771 Views

BDSM Checklist

I'm new here, not to kink or BDSM!!!!! I've perused a few profiles here and it seems that no one else has a BDSM Checklist, or its not visible. Maybe I just don't know what to do here!!

It's impo ...

Wed Jul 30, 2025 11:54 pm • 7 Replies • 3771 Views

*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

Greetings! I'm and old world Dom, from the days before safewords and when you would lose your job for being into BDSM!!!!!
40+ yrs and I just stumbled onto this site. Seems petty exhaustive with th ...

Wed Jul 30, 2025 1:08 am • 3357 Replies • 1366937 Views