Chubby body.

Like many others, I totally relate to your post. I've struggled with body issues my entire life. I've never felt good enough, pretty enough, thin enough, etc..... back when i first met my Master (15 ...

Thu Jun 06, 2019 5:43 pm • 24 Replies • 12078 Views

Changing nicknames

"Oddly though, the longer it remains, the more strange my vanilla name becomes to me... sometimes I double take when someone calls me by my actual name because it just doesn’t seem to fit as well anym ...

Mon Jun 03, 2019 1:46 pm • 24 Replies • 8876 Views

Kinky Christian?

There is a faction of BDSM for Christians called Domestic Discipline.

Sat Jun 01, 2019 12:16 pm • 60 Replies • 27578 Views

On the subject of safewords & punishments

This might start the proverbial shit storm but I really enjoy getting other’s views, even if I disagree.

I’m following a group on FB and a sub mentioned safewording out of a punishment. This has n ...

Fri May 31, 2019 11:28 pm • 13 Replies • 9414 Views

Eye Contact

I had an epic case of insomnia last night and kept coming across posts on FB that made me want to explore the subject more...

In your dynamic, is eye contact permitted? In a scene/outside of a sc ...

Tue May 28, 2019 8:03 pm • 9 Replies • 3742 Views

Collars

To be clear out relationship is not “ online”. It is long distance (for now) but very real. We spend as much physical time together as we can. I don’t poo poo online relationships but know that i cou ...

Tue May 28, 2019 4:25 am • 33 Replies • 18075 Views

Collars

My very first scene a collar was buckled around my neck. The Dominant (Who I would eventually be owned by), spoke at great lengths to make me understand that it was a play collar and meant only that I ...

Tue May 28, 2019 3:12 am • 33 Replies • 18075 Views

V or Triangle?

Currently I’m in a V, I have a Dominant and a gf. I’m hoping that it will work itself into a triangle.... we are working towards that as they develop a relationship.

Mon May 20, 2019 4:43 am • 38 Replies • 10955 Views

Casual BDSM?

It seems I might be in the minority on this subject. I must “like” people I have sex or BDSM play with, but love and emotions haven’t been required in a long time. I guess I compartmentalize well? ...

Tue Dec 04, 2018 2:13 am • 13 Replies • 12105 Views

Alternative Names?

I call my primary sub .. My Darlin' the "my" is enough for him to feel owned and bland enough that non kinkers never bat an eye at it.

“my” never fails to turn me inside out.

Tue Oct 23, 2018 7:24 am • 19 Replies • 8709 Views