Branding (tattoos)

I have 2. One He gifted me 17 years ago. It’s simple enough. Kanji for slave. It did include his initials at the time but after our breakup I covered them with a dead petal from the lotus I added unde ...

Wed Jun 26, 2019 1:19 am • 21 Replies • 13378 Views

You might be a Dom or sub if...... (Just for fun)

I'm dog sitting for a friend this week and since I normally have no commute (live/work in same building), I thought I would take the opportunity to enjoy some of my Audible credits on my ride. This m ...

Sun Jun 23, 2019 4:02 pm • 24 Replies • 9310 Views

Open to all: What's your "hook"?

Slacks with a button up collared shirt, unbuttoned at the neck, and rolled up to the forearms.

Oh how I love the rolled up sleeves to expose the forearms.... yum!!

Sat Jun 22, 2019 7:42 am • 73 Replies • 20642 Views

Forced Bi-sexual Encounters

I’m not Dominant but I can speak to the fact the yes, 2 beautiful men together can be a turn on. Though I do not believe there is anything forced. If one doesn’t want to do any act in BDSM they merely ...

Mon Jun 17, 2019 4:46 am • 39 Replies • 31938 Views

Chubby body.

Like many others, I totally relate to your post. I've struggled with body issues my entire life. I've never felt good enough, pretty enough, thin enough, etc..... back when i first met my Master (15 ...

Thu Jun 06, 2019 5:43 pm • 24 Replies • 12943 Views

Changing nicknames

"Oddly though, the longer it remains, the more strange my vanilla name becomes to me... sometimes I double take when someone calls me by my actual name because it just doesn’t seem to fit as well anym ...

Mon Jun 03, 2019 1:46 pm • 24 Replies • 9569 Views

Kinky Christian?

There is a faction of BDSM for Christians called Domestic Discipline.

Sat Jun 01, 2019 12:16 pm • 60 Replies • 29729 Views

On the subject of safewords & punishments

This might start the proverbial shit storm but I really enjoy getting other’s views, even if I disagree.

I’m following a group on FB and a sub mentioned safewording out of a punishment. This has n ...

Fri May 31, 2019 11:28 pm • 13 Replies • 10242 Views

Eye Contact

I had an epic case of insomnia last night and kept coming across posts on FB that made me want to explore the subject more...

In your dynamic, is eye contact permitted? In a scene/outside of a sc ...

Tue May 28, 2019 8:03 pm • 9 Replies • 3952 Views

Collars

To be clear out relationship is not “ online”. It is long distance (for now) but very real. We spend as much physical time together as we can. I don’t poo poo online relationships but know that i cou ...

Tue May 28, 2019 4:25 am • 33 Replies • 19715 Views