Is Anal Play Taboo For Young, Straight Subs?

It shouldn't be.
But that's an individual issue.

Wed Feb 26, 2020 10:29 pm • 76 Replies • 35789 Views

Dom training

I love Dom/Domme training.
Its critical.
We all started out not knowing anything.

The more closed a person is to learning-
They less they know - the bigger the egos-

I love learning new s ...

Wed Feb 26, 2020 10:28 pm • 16 Replies • 10668 Views

So yea that just happened...

Holy shit. This is the epitome of fucked up.

The first thing you need to know -
And hear me completely here:

That asshats reaction had:

NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU.

That is this person's f ...

Wed Feb 26, 2020 10:26 pm • 32 Replies • 11070 Views

"rules"

I would like to correct one thing here-
These rules do not stem from old guard and or leather clubs.

Most of those rules died when the internet entered our lives.

The rules that you see now ...

Wed Feb 26, 2020 10:23 pm • 13 Replies • 7309 Views

Possibly a stupid question...

Absolutely they can.

One can be a Master to one person and a slave to another. At the same time.

I bottom to my beloved when I need hard release. My beloved does not think less of me- my belo ...

Wed Feb 26, 2020 10:14 pm • 7 Replies • 4704 Views

Mental awareness

@Erick

Having been in therapy myself and having worked in psych:

I disagree with you on all points.

Not only are you wrong you are unsafe.

If you want to cherry pick the articles go ahe ...

Sun Feb 23, 2020 12:07 am • 33 Replies • 9710 Views

Mental awareness

@Erick

Behavioral cognitive therapy has been very successful:


https://www.healthline.com/health/depression/cognitive-behavioral-therapy

Sat Feb 22, 2020 6:14 pm • 33 Replies • 9710 Views

Mental awareness

Moreover

@Erick

Here is a great article in understanding brain chemistry and its role in mental illness:


https://www.healthline.com/health/chemical-imbalance-in-the-brain

Sat Feb 22, 2020 6:11 pm • 33 Replies • 9710 Views

Mental awareness

@Erick


With all due respect you are very wrong on all points.

The DSM5 defines mental illness as

"A mental disorder is a syndrome characterized by clinically significant disturbance in an ...

Sat Feb 22, 2020 6:08 pm • 33 Replies • 9710 Views

Mental awareness

"How can we teach someone to love himself ? "


You cant teach someone to love themselves. They have to choose that.
For my beloved I have rules about self deprecation and allowing others to put ...

Thu Feb 20, 2020 11:18 pm • 33 Replies • 9710 Views