Past Abuse/Present BDSM relationship

1 in 3 women are sexually assaulted
For men its 1 in 4
1 in 5 women are sexually battered
For men is 1 in 38.


We live in a society where OVER 50% of women have experienced sexual abuse.
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Fri Nov 22, 2019 7:29 am • 11 Replies • 6562 Views

Worst Thing You've Caught Your Sub Doing

My ex- was still martied to her husband,
and with me, and flew to California be with another woman.


Jeez--- i was soooop sttuuuppiiddd

Fri Nov 22, 2019 7:24 am • 8 Replies • 3750 Views

Psychological Subspace

NRE- new relationship energy


This is a great question.

I believe it applies to both sides of the whip.

For me, I focus on long term.
I listen carefully when they talk.
I think hard ab ...

Thu Nov 21, 2019 7:08 am • 3 Replies • 2912 Views

Thoughts on Lessening Shark Attacks

I think it is important for newbies to learn how to negotiate dark waters.

Is it unfortunate? Yes, but its also part of life- vanilla and other.

Newbies learning how to stand up, speak out, re ...

Wed Nov 20, 2019 1:57 am • 8 Replies • 4062 Views

Politesse

We are equal until it is negotiated otherwise.

I would happilt turn away anyone who came to me forgetting that.

Wed Nov 20, 2019 1:49 am • 13 Replies • 5433 Views

Do true subs males exist anymore? This was asked in sub women for males but I would like to see the

As always I take personal issue with the word "true".

That being said -

Yes. There are.

Tue Nov 19, 2019 6:55 am • 57 Replies • 25393 Views

Orgasm Control

I love play. I enjoy orgasm control. But honestly what gets my heart racing and my eyes are dilated like a crazy person is service.

Sun Nov 17, 2019 7:56 pm • 9 Replies • 5201 Views

Blocking

Ive been blocked. Dont care.

I had this incident at work. When I was working. The adukt child of an elderly parent was stealing their hospice pain medication.

One of the other children came t ...

Sun Nov 17, 2019 6:48 am • 75 Replies • 20657 Views

Blocking

Because people can become uncomfortable with how they feel and its easier to disappear then it is to deal with it.

Sun Nov 17, 2019 1:50 am • 75 Replies • 20657 Views

Sub Drop - causes and feelings

Lots of self care could be the answer here.

Knowing its coming is a huge advantage.


Drink lots of water, eat consistent meals, rest, keep a schedule/routine, and dont do anything that requ ...

Sun Nov 17, 2019 1:48 am • 6 Replies • 2880 Views