Confused sub

You arent doing anything wrong.
You arent failing at being a submissive.

What you are going through is very normal.

You are finding out what it takes for you to emotionally, sexually, and p ...

Fri May 31, 2019 1:47 am • 12 Replies • 7873 Views

Eye Contact

Depends on what my goal is.

From My Beloved I require it.

From others I nay not.

Just depends on what I want or need from that person.

Wed May 29, 2019 3:43 am • 9 Replies • 4785 Views

What to look for in a Mentor/guide

In my opinion------

1) look for a mentor that has the same identity as you

2) someone who will not be playing with you


3) someone who will not have sex with you


4) someone who you alre ...

Tue May 28, 2019 5:04 pm • 6 Replies • 3046 Views

Does this exist?

Are there courses for mentoring new D-types? Yes you have to check your area. People also do online mentoring.

Some people offer a week-long course and afterwards you are certified I guess. But ...

Tue May 28, 2019 4:10 am • 11 Replies • 9963 Views

making new friends in a new state

Hi, im blah blah-
Im new tell me anout the scene here.

Tue May 28, 2019 1:04 am • 6 Replies • 4699 Views

I dont even know

1. How do i choose a dom/daddy/master ect.

You dont. The two of you together as a team decide.




2. How do i know where i fit? Im so ornery

This is where insight comes in. Think about ...

Tue May 28, 2019 1:03 am • 15 Replies • 9221 Views

How did you find your Dom?

Well you really only have two choices
here :

you can go outside and tan in a lawn chair and wait for a Dominant to show up.



If that doesn't work you can try to order pizza for delivery. ...

Sun May 26, 2019 7:04 pm • 10 Replies • 12223 Views

Ageism?!?! Why?!?!

@Bunnie

This is so true.

Sun May 26, 2019 12:01 am • 19 Replies • 9807 Views

Ageism?!?! Why?!?!

Ty!!
Unfortunately ageism is just a part of who we are as people. Just cuz we're in BDSM doesn't separate us from who we are culturally unfortunately.

Sat May 25, 2019 10:50 pm • 19 Replies • 9807 Views

Ageism?!?! Why?!?!

If being a little, or a baby girl, or a boy has anything to do with biological age means that we would have to be able to age out.

BDSM makes its own rules. It's all about headspace. It doesn't m ...

Sat May 25, 2019 10:01 pm • 19 Replies • 9807 Views