Sub - Dom - Sadist?

Your partner may not understand that you need clearer communication. I agree he sings like a switch. And because of that he needs to be a lot more communicative


On that note !!
Welcome!!!!

Mon Apr 29, 2019 4:10 pm • 11 Replies • 8069 Views

Jealous of Involving Other Women

@Babygirl



One does not build up another through fear.
One creates unhealthy co dependency through fear.


One does not help others to be stronger through forcing them beyond their limits ...

Mon Apr 29, 2019 4:40 am • 29 Replies • 15766 Views

Jealous of Involving Other Women

Soooooo.....

This is some prime grade A bullshit.

Punishments are not supposed to break you or the relationship.

Let's play this out here :
You pick a woman.
She somehow miraculously a ...

Mon Apr 29, 2019 12:54 am • 29 Replies • 15766 Views

Where’s everyone at?

https://www.the-iron-gate.com/munches/5

Mon Apr 29, 2019 12:41 am • 34 Replies • 16515 Views

Lack of Imagination

You are in the place that everyone who begins bdsm starts with.

How do you know food what to order if you've never been in a restaurant before?

You dont know your boundaries - how can you? Tha ...

Sat Apr 27, 2019 9:53 pm • 10 Replies • 8110 Views

Confidence

Yes.

Fake it till you make it.

Take on the personality traits of someone you think is confident.
How do they walk. How do they talk. How do they stand and take up space.

When you start t ...

Sat Apr 27, 2019 12:48 pm • 4 Replies • 3436 Views

Bonding(2019) - Netflix Original

1 min it some guy smoking what I assume is crack or meth.
This guy becomes a "unwilling" participant.

5 mins in consent violations.

I lasted until min 6.

When I disgustedly turned the chan ...

Sat Apr 27, 2019 12:42 pm • 15 Replies • 9545 Views

Flashbacks to an intense night of play

ABSOLUTELY!

It happens to me to.

Sat Apr 27, 2019 12:38 pm • 3 Replies • 3753 Views

New To BDSM [doubts]

I disagree.

You get out of it what you put onto it.

I like thecage

I like the forums and blogs.

Someone's relationship status does not
determine whether or not I read or respond to them

Fri Apr 26, 2019 5:44 am • 11 Replies • 7820 Views

Help

I am so glad that you found 2 people that own you.

That is a celebration.

That being said.

Apologize. Write a letter as to how you take accountability and your plan for change.


And ...

Thu Apr 25, 2019 6:40 pm • 11 Replies • 7554 Views