Soooo Squirting...

I, in experience, have been forced to urinate, and also have had squirting orgasms. They are both very different. I am not saying "Fill a cup" as I have read some people refer to it as. But they are v ...

Sun Oct 04, 2020 6:52 am • 104 Replies • 53108 Views

Is submission really a gift?

It takes all kinds of kinds. Personally, being put on a pedestal and worshipped is completely counter productive to what I need in a dynamic. But on the other end, because of balance, I do consider my ...

Sat Oct 03, 2020 12:50 am • 41 Replies • 6815 Views

Is submission really a gift?

Since you specifically asked. I see a lot of ads, and have a lot of conversations where a Dom says that his "Dominance" is a gift... and based on what you have been saying, you are saying it is the sa ...

Sat Oct 03, 2020 12:09 am • 41 Replies • 6815 Views

Help for my Daughter

My opinion, because I do not like people, or social settings, but am very good at pretending now after years of practice and observation.

She does not need them all to want to talk to her. She onl ...

Fri Oct 02, 2020 10:02 pm • 28 Replies • 4867 Views

Is submission really a gift?

The term 'Gift' I think has many different connotations than a literal meaning. For instance, some would consider it a blessing, a commitment, an honor, a duty. They all fundamentally mean the same th ...

Fri Oct 02, 2020 9:57 pm • 41 Replies • 6815 Views

BDSM without the DSM - thoughts?

I agree with your outlook on it.

I will clarify so that I can agree with what you are saying. I did say gifts, but it is more accurate to what you are saying. Not a spoken "thank you" or a physica ...

Wed Sep 30, 2020 11:35 pm • 43 Replies • 9167 Views

when dominant men ONLY want 'inexperienced' subs

I know. I was going for shock value... Consent is not a thing now in some circles. Just like rape. It still happens.

Wed Sep 30, 2020 8:38 pm • 19 Replies • 6658 Views

when dominant men ONLY want 'inexperienced' subs

I also consider it a red flag when a Dom says "I have xx years of experience" as their highlight for a few reasons:

1) A LOT of things have changed in the last 20, even 10 years! Consent is a thin ...

Wed Sep 30, 2020 8:18 pm • 19 Replies • 6658 Views

Tips and tricks?

Hello,

I get really bad ones as well. I only get them every 2 months or so, and have gone 6 months without at some point. Here are some of my triggers and some (weird) ways I have found that not o ...

Wed Sep 30, 2020 7:52 pm • 7 Replies • 1779 Views

BDSM without the DSM - thoughts?

Okay... I had to elaborate. Sorry, not sorry.

You should NEVER allow someone to lay a physical hand on you because they convinced you, you did something wrong. That is not choice, that is gaslight ...

Wed Sep 30, 2020 5:06 pm • 43 Replies • 9167 Views