BDSM: Best Advice You've Received?

Trust trust trust trust trust. In that order.

Mon Nov 12, 2018 9:47 pm • 34 Replies • 16333 Views

What's your go to play?

I love rope but don’t use it often enough.

Floggers and forced orgasms always a winner!

Thu Nov 08, 2018 4:17 pm • 8 Replies • 4305 Views

When disobediance is the RIGHT thing.

Amazing to read. Strong stuff

Mon Nov 05, 2018 11:41 pm • 7 Replies • 4530 Views

What kind of Dom or sub are you?

Great post! Great link too. After reading I think I’d describe myself the same as EnforcedBliss - the caring sadist gentleman. But I’m also a bit of a cheeky chappy and I like to be a little unpredict ...

Sun Nov 04, 2018 3:24 pm • 68 Replies • 38291 Views

Consequences for Invoking Safe-Word

My partner and I have two safe words - one meaning ‘not so hard / do something else’ and another ‘stop everything’.

There are no punishments for uttering either of these and nor should there be. ...

Sat Nov 03, 2018 7:33 pm • 33 Replies • 21340 Views

Male anal play while being switch

Remembering that anal penetration and anal stimulation are not necessarily the same thing might help you both enjoy this more.

P-spot stimulation is a wonderful sensation that can’t really be expe ...

Sat Nov 03, 2018 12:18 pm • 4 Replies • 4912 Views

Love and BDSM

This is such an interesting topic and completely agree with MasterBear about how I couldn’t do what I do without love.

My thoughts on pain are that throughout our lives we rarely experience pain wi ...

Fri Nov 02, 2018 8:09 pm • 7 Replies • 4653 Views

Kinky Alphabet.

S= switch. Mixing it up helps to keep things in perspective sometimes

Fri Nov 02, 2018 3:03 pm • 129 Replies • 58824 Views

Anyone else have an 'everything' fetish?

I think there’s a risk here of confusing open-mindedness with the term ‘everything fetish’. The videos I watch and the activities I genuinely get aroused by are two different things. I guess if we all ...

Thu Nov 01, 2018 4:39 pm • 21 Replies • 13891 Views

*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

Hello Cage!

Been using this site now a few weeks and thought about time to contribute to this thread.

I’m a UK male in my late 30s and am in my first properly explorative relationship with my cu ...

Thu Nov 01, 2018 3:49 pm • 3267 Replies • 1139745 Views