I'm a new Dom experienciencing a breakup. Help!!!

Theres a lot going on here but from what you said you are probably best to move one. That doesn't feel good but it is what you need to hear.

I'm very troubled by your use of the word 'abuse' true B ...

Mon Aug 03, 2020 11:19 pm • 32 Replies • 12597 Views

Wax play?

Oiling the skin before waxing someone makes removal easier later. Massage oils seem to stay cooler than baby oil which gets hot under wax (baby oil is just scented mineral oil, some of the scent oil d ...

Mon Aug 03, 2020 12:16 am • 9 Replies • 4727 Views

Red flags

Very good advice Sammy

But I will add that not everything someone on this site says about someone else is true, consider motivations and wether they have your best interest and happiness in mind wh ...

Sun Jul 26, 2020 4:10 am • 35 Replies • 9610 Views

Tips on vetting

Time will tell.

Unfortunately time requires patience.

Fri Jul 24, 2020 5:03 am • 6 Replies • 2755 Views

ghosting

One Year, but it was all online

Sat Jul 18, 2020 4:07 am • 10 Replies • 5047 Views

What are some non-sexual traits or things that turn you guys on?

A sharp mind - able to hold her own with me intellectually
a kind heart - not just to me but to others as well
Integrity - her actions match her words
Empathy - caring for others even if there is n ...

Sun Jul 12, 2020 5:34 am • 119 Replies • 32465 Views

Hair or Bare?

Bare and smooth

Thu Jun 18, 2020 11:09 pm • 138 Replies • 42017 Views

Re: I'd like to pose a question.

When you are in *any* kind of relationship, whether it be kinky or vanilla or somewhere in between, and you are a straight man (sorry to any gay men that might be on here. i need a heterosexual opinio ...

Wed Jun 03, 2020 2:30 am • 28 Replies • 12861 Views

use of a "electric dog collar" to control submissive

Poor argument. You're basically saying "That's too dangerous, don't do it". People can and do do "risky things". It is NOT a fantasy, thank you very much. It's because of "Fearing the worst" that peop ...

Fri May 22, 2020 9:51 pm • 56 Replies • 56670 Views

Fucking book club

Some books you might find interesting are:
Screw the Roses send me the Thornes.
https://www.amazon.com/Screw-Roses-Send-Thorns-Sadomasochism/dp/0964596008/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1489958591&s ...

Thu May 21, 2020 1:47 pm • 92 Replies • 27715 Views