Real Time and Online : What's your prefence and why?

Real life I would say. In some ways I have not entered this century. Not sure I ever caught up with the 20th century. Most of the online effort on my part since I have been single again has proved to ...

Sat Sep 28, 2019 5:41 pm • 70 Replies • 35058 Views

Does Money Matter?

To the OP's question. It would not bother me if my sub earned more than me. Currently subless and that's ok for now. I am semi retired and not earning what I use to but I am not loaded down with debt ...

Sat Sep 28, 2019 3:22 pm • 95 Replies • 39948 Views

Mental illness within the BDSM community

I think mental illness and other traumas are best handled by professionals within the medical field.
Partners and families can help in a supportive role. In spite of all this still fall short. My exp ...

Fri Sep 27, 2019 6:47 pm • 20 Replies • 9649 Views

Mental illness within the BDSM community

Even being her Dom I could not force her to stay on meds and Therapy. She oftened believed things to be true that no rational person would. Near the end of our relationship she gave out to a man onlin ...

Fri Sep 27, 2019 4:53 pm • 20 Replies • 9649 Views

Mental illness within the BDSM community

Was not sure where to put this. My longest D/s relationship was 23 years and about half way thorough our relaltionship she was diagnosed as being Bipolar and that explained a lot to me about why she a ...

Fri Sep 27, 2019 2:07 am • 20 Replies • 9649 Views