Extreme Play

As far as what my newer partner is into; we began talking and it came up that she becomes very aroused by fear for her life, and she asked if I would be able to portray characters who could induce fea ...

Wed Nov 06, 2019 3:51 am • 8 Replies • 3430 Views

Extreme Play

You can grind down the barbs on fish or shark hooks, depending on what you are doing.

Wed Nov 06, 2019 3:44 am • 8 Replies • 3430 Views

Extreme Play

I appreciate you taking the time to explain that, and sharing some of your interests.
I would welcome examples given by anyone and I think that what is considered edge play or extreme on an individu ...

Tue Nov 05, 2019 11:16 pm • 8 Replies • 3430 Views

Extreme Play

I recently began a relationship with a woman who is into some intense play, and it got me to thinking, and in turn, wondering what sorts of extreme play you fine folks are into.

While most of my su ...

Tue Nov 05, 2019 6:09 am • 8 Replies • 3430 Views

Inexperienced submissives

For me, experience is nowhere near as important as open mindedness and a desire to learn.
I see potential in any level of experience as a means of bonding.

Sat Oct 19, 2019 8:44 am • 21 Replies • 13106 Views

Mental illness within the BDSM community

@Dollmaker
I am aware of the potential for misguided intentions and outright exploitation everywhere. I have considered the idea of autonomous responsibility and trusting people to be smart enough to ...

Fri Sep 27, 2019 6:27 pm • 20 Replies • 12025 Views

Mental illness within the BDSM community

And sometimes, regulating someone with a mental health issue is beyond our personal control. I am a healthcare professional, and while I do not work with the mentally ill directly, I work in hospitals ...

Fri Sep 27, 2019 5:04 pm • 20 Replies • 12025 Views

Mental illness within the BDSM community

I certainly see a link between BSM and mental health issues.
Especially with traumas, what you generally get is either repression or reconciliation. BDSM allows for a safe and controllable means of ...

Fri Sep 27, 2019 4:58 pm • 20 Replies • 12025 Views

Mental illness within the BDSM community

My experiences with mental health in my kink life are pretty varied. Personally, I was incredibly lucky to have grown up with mostly internal trauma factors, my only real external trauma centered arou ...

Fri Sep 27, 2019 4:04 pm • 20 Replies • 12025 Views

Poly and the Qualification of Love

Yes, @ZaftigV

I have a very dear play partner who is solo poly, and I have been first hand at her regular persecution among even other non-monogamists. All I can say to you is that some of us suppo ...

Thu Sep 26, 2019 8:41 am • 18 Replies • 9925 Views