Question for both submissives and dominants about communication

Ceusacic, Thank you for your detailed and thought provoking response. Several points you made resonated with me and I will be giving them more thought for sure.

Fri Apr 19, 2019 8:38 am • 42 Replies • 24052 Views

Ways of finding the partner you want - stories and suggestio

By what other methods (besides the Cage) have you found your BDSM partners in the past?
Perhaps traditional dating sites? In person at clubs or events? Chat rooms?
Thank you in advance for sharing y ...

Thu Apr 18, 2019 12:13 pm • 5 Replies • 3103 Views

Looks

Looks are important to me on some level. But seeing a photo is only an initial indication of whether I might be physically attracted to someone. We might connect on all levels, emotionally, mentally ...

Tue Apr 16, 2019 4:46 am • 49 Replies • 27405 Views

A question for the Doms

Yes I have experienced this (in a traditional relationship). If you feel like he is pulling away because of some internal struggle that has nothing to do with you, perhaps give him one more chance to ...

Mon Apr 15, 2019 4:18 am • 37 Replies • 16100 Views

Question for both submissives and dominants about communication

Re the last comment - It is not a matter of personal protocol; it's just an offering of respect that goes along with any initial interaction with someone new, but is especially important in this type ...

Sun Apr 14, 2019 5:26 am • 42 Replies • 24052 Views

Question for both submissives and dominants about communication

MissBonnie, thank you for your thoughts. We are of the same mind there, I believe. If the person is making the effort to be polite and respectful, it means something. Unfortunately, manners seem to ...

Sat Apr 13, 2019 4:15 am • 42 Replies • 24052 Views

Question for both submissives and dominants about communicat

I was first going to post the question for submissive men to answer, but really I am interested in everyone's input, whether dom or sub, male or female.
If you are a sub approaching your potential do ...

Sat Apr 13, 2019 1:08 am • 42 Replies • 24052 Views

Connecting with others

For fetlife - when you say "can get quite aggressive" are you referring to the other people on the site, as in being aggressive with trying to meet you? And would anyone know if there is a way to sig ...

Thu Apr 11, 2019 11:16 pm • 11 Replies • 6749 Views

Connecting with others

Thanks all for your replies, am researching some of the ones you've mentioned further.

Thu Apr 11, 2019 5:40 am • 11 Replies • 6749 Views

Connecting with others

I've heard others complain about fetlife but I've not used it myself. What is it that you don't like about it?

Sun Apr 07, 2019 6:56 am • 11 Replies • 6749 Views