Nudes for dudes?

Hey! Excellent question.

It’s important at the beginning of the dynamic being established there be a general comfort level established. This should be comfortable and fun for both of you guys. Whe ...

Wed May 08, 2019 10:37 pm • 28 Replies • 18001 Views

Dominants in pet play

Me personally? I love pet names. Each one of my opportunities was named after an animal, turtle, fox, minx...doe. And generally I named them after their personality, or let them pick it for themselves ...

Fri May 03, 2019 4:55 pm • 13 Replies • 10113 Views

My NSA Dom

Few questions for you to consider yourself, before you ask the important questions to him.

Did it seem like your relationship , and that’s what this is a relationship/dynamic, was a rebound? Did i ...

Tue Apr 30, 2019 7:38 pm • 4 Replies • 2778 Views

Lack of Imagination

At times the fantasy that they enjoy , isn’t the fantasy that you enjoy. So when it doesn’t do anything for you, it might just not be what you are into. Not to say that won’t change over time, but whe ...

Sun Apr 28, 2019 1:23 am • 10 Replies • 8200 Views

New To BDSM [doubts]

Plenty of helpful people on this site, plenty of not so helpful people as well. It’s important to ask questions...feeling out your spot in this huge community is important.

If you have people that ...

Fri Apr 26, 2019 7:28 pm • 11 Replies • 7925 Views

Help

Then , I take back that advice about cling to one: even-as I have stated if it was a tag-team thing then perhaps disregard it should work out.

My intent was not to shame, nor induce fear, my intent ...

Thu Apr 25, 2019 7:59 pm • 11 Replies • 7655 Views

Help

Jesus once said “No man can serve two masters, for either you will love the one and hate the other.” I think it can be very pertinent here, even though it was specifically a parable of God vs “the roo ...

Thu Apr 25, 2019 6:16 pm • 11 Replies • 7655 Views

Anyone know how i can subconsciously convince my wife to become my sub?

Then, I’d she wants no part that’s end of story. How my previous was too, have a hard time shaking abuse from D/s.

Wed Apr 24, 2019 9:59 pm • 22 Replies • 15592 Views

Anyone know how i can subconsciously convince my wife to become my sub?

My mentor and I have discussed this a lot, it’s important to feel out the water first.

Jumping in head first will cause questions, at times very awkward ones that are hard to answer.

Being a su ...

Wed Apr 24, 2019 6:47 pm • 22 Replies • 15592 Views

Collars

Physical accessories are a bit different than the act of collaring.

My mentor and I have discussed this, and IT IS A HUGE DEAL for any dynamic to get it that point.

People can buy their own ch ...

Tue Apr 23, 2019 7:21 pm • 33 Replies • 20085 Views