Nudes for dudes?

NoOneofConsequence,

Thank you for your long thought out response. I pretty much agree with everything you said (Except that you're past your best-by date. Nobody's too old for fun). It can be very ...

Thu May 09, 2019 3:33 pm • 28 Replies • 16311 Views

Nudes for dudes?

Bunnie,

Thank you for your response. It's very much appreciated. I agree with everything you said, and that's why I did run the other way when that happened. Thanks for your advice and sharing your ...

Thu May 09, 2019 3:26 pm • 28 Replies • 16311 Views

Nudes for dudes?

Wiseonthree​(dom male),
I have already cut communication with him. It made me very uncomfortable to say the least.


DrWakko{RL ONLY},
I know what you're saying about training, but my sub and I a ...

Wed May 08, 2019 11:18 pm • 28 Replies • 16311 Views

Same

I'm in Indiana too and am having the same problem. I'm meeting up with a local Indiana kinkster next week (super excited!) that I hope to go to events with, but it is definitely difficult to find like ...

Wed May 08, 2019 11:08 pm • 13 Replies • 12520 Views

Nudes for dudes?

"It is important that you as a switch (edit) tell everyone that boundary, and how it feels when it gets crossed. If he didn’t know of this boundary, don’t get mad at him for not being psychic or readi ...

Wed May 08, 2019 10:47 pm • 28 Replies • 16311 Views

Nudes for dudes?

Come on, it's happened. Many of us have been on the asking, being asked, giving, and/or receiving side of things at least once. But the experience is different for everyone, hence this post.

I had ...

Wed May 08, 2019 10:17 pm • 28 Replies • 16311 Views

Rope bondage classes and other events

So I’m still pretty new to the BDSM community, and I was wondering if anybody had any tips for finding local events and classes. I’d love to go to a rope bondage class, but I can’t find any. Im meetin ...

Sun May 05, 2019 4:36 pm • 2 Replies • 2371 Views

Trouble satisfying yourself?

Txye,
Oh my gosh, I was just thinking about this yesterday! I know exactly what you mean! I’ve wondered if for me, being satisfied sexually is like being tickled. It’s difficult to tickle yourself, b ...

Mon Apr 15, 2019 2:24 pm • 4 Replies • 2367 Views

BDSM without sex?

Lexxa,
Thank you for your response! I’m so glad there’s another Demi here who has gone through this. I can relate to what you said on a few levels. I hate it when people try to start things off sexua ...

Mon Apr 15, 2019 2:15 pm • 9 Replies • 3275 Views

BDSM without sex?

Nawazakana,
Thank you so much for sharing your experience with me! When I told my sister I was kinky, her response was “I thought you were asexual!” Then I tried to explain how you can be kinky witho ...

Mon Apr 15, 2019 1:33 pm • 9 Replies • 3275 Views