What does Politics have with being a “good” sub or friend

 As with so many things in this lifestyle, it is a matter of expressing personal preferences. Politics matters to you? Say so. If it is a deal-breaker, get it out of the way up front, so you aren't wa ...

Mon Aug 19, 2019 6:59 pm • 21 Replies • 7476 Views

Just needing a place to vent

Been there. Living in "survival mode" is hard, and the hardest part is that you are too exhausted to put in the effort to make things better. Glad you have an interview coming up, and I hope it improv ...

Mon Jul 29, 2019 2:29 am • 5 Replies • 2620 Views

Illness and bdsm

Someone above mentioned a "new normal", and I think this is the crux of the whole issue. Negotiations have been carried out, agreements have been made... and then, everything changes.
A good relatio ...

Wed Jan 09, 2019 6:22 pm • 22 Replies • 8155 Views

First Munch | Expectations, Etiquette, Dresscode

Late to the conversation, only because I'm not on here often.

@Resilient Pearl: That really sucks. I am rather surprised that no one you contacted mentioned this possibility to you. I have been ...

Wed Dec 12, 2018 10:13 pm • 9 Replies • 3550 Views