I'm lost

i think to some degree, we're all "lost?" my own take is we don't spend enough time discussing our kinks, which is why we're here. i see our "kinks" as just our personal expressions of needs/wants, a ...

Wed Aug 19, 2020 4:50 am • 19 Replies • 7667 Views

Financially supporting another

...if I needed to rely on a sub to pay my bills it would really give him power over me, wouldn't it? So I never really expect financial slavery from my subs, though gifts, spoiling etc. are always wel ...

Tue Aug 18, 2020 5:25 pm • 39 Replies • 14281 Views

Does Size Matter Relationship Vs 1-Night Stand?

I think dick size only matters to guys. Yes there are the size queens out there, but for the most part its a guy thing.
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Eh? Maybe generally speaking.
i'm a gay bottom and as cliche' as it ...

Mon Aug 17, 2020 9:47 pm • 34 Replies • 11704 Views

Financially supporting another

This is a thread loaded with long and thoughtful posts. However I'm short on time so I'll just register my thoughts:

Finance and money are tricky bastards. there are those out for the free lunch ...

Mon Aug 17, 2020 6:23 pm • 39 Replies • 14281 Views

Financially supporting another

I have in the past financially supported my Dom/partner. Things can happen and helping each other is important but it can get to the point when it feels rude. No concern of how everything is going to ...

Sun Aug 16, 2020 10:30 pm • 39 Replies • 14281 Views

Financially supporting another

"I don't understand the problem. I've always earned more, so why shouldn't I split it or pay. There was also a time between my projects my lover had more. If money is a topic you solve it together or ...

Sun Aug 16, 2020 9:03 pm • 39 Replies • 14281 Views

Financially supporting another

I've just returned home from a mentally grueling job to see that the other person didn't even have the courtesy to take their dirty dishes to the kitchen, it wears on you as the years go by. Weekly di ...

Sat Aug 15, 2020 12:21 am • 39 Replies • 14281 Views

Is there such a role as a "toy"?

I love to be played with and tossed around and beat and humiliated IN A SCENE. But I expect that the Sadist/Dom whatever Top role would have respect for me in that scene and actually care/love and me ...

Fri Aug 14, 2020 5:12 pm • 66 Replies • 27925 Views

Is there such a role as a "toy"?

I love to be played with and tossed around and beat and humiliated IN A SCENE. But I expect that the Sadist/Dom whatever Top role would have respect for me in that scene and actually care/love and me ...

Fri Aug 14, 2020 4:52 pm • 66 Replies • 27925 Views

Financially supporting another

That does not exclude from gift giving, or playing a certain role in a bdsm sense. .

Thank you for your reply (all of it). i separated out this part of it to respond to because i appreciate and t ...

Fri Aug 14, 2020 3:36 pm • 39 Replies • 14281 Views