Developing feelings

Some wonderful thoughts and posts... as usual.

And that "as usual" part speaks to a core community of wonderfully serious and thoughtful people. We're not 'the norm.' Many, if not most of us, li ...

Mon Aug 10, 2020 5:24 pm • 26 Replies • 7023 Views

BDSM in music

Steely Dan, "Two Against Nature." Pretty much the whole album.

Mon Aug 10, 2020 4:41 pm • 72 Replies • 27534 Views

Why Block conversation?

i think you have listed several reasons that would fit, or that people have.

i see two general and distinct types of D/s (though the variations are prolly innumerable). Some Doms and subs use forc ...

Mon Aug 10, 2020 4:25 pm • 18 Replies • 6069 Views

Positive Masculinity

Ok, I’m gay bottom sub, but I’d wager these are things that align with sub women, we often seem to have stuff in common.
I believe part of the problem with patriarchy is how some cultures try and es ...

Sat Aug 08, 2020 7:14 pm • 11 Replies • 4701 Views

Master Closet into Play Room

i'd go with a similar idea as OraclePollon, cept you may not need another bed?, so perhaps a hidden closet within a closet? The back closet wall is also a secret door that opens into a playroom closet ...

Fri Aug 07, 2020 3:43 am • 7 Replies • 5117 Views

I'm a new Dom experienciencing a breakup. Help!!!

I think we both agreed on what abuse meant. We used it in the sense of being truly abused (non-consensual) and abuse that I gave her (consensual) meaning impact play. Love is something we actually ...

Thu Aug 06, 2020 5:57 am • 32 Replies • 12739 Views

Sex positions.

1. prone
2. Riding on top (i don't like to be in control)

Wed Aug 05, 2020 4:13 pm • 10 Replies • 4758 Views

I'm a new Dom experienciencing a breakup. Help!!!

I think we both agreed on what abuse meant. We used it in the sense of being truly abused (non-consensual) and abuse that I gave her (consensual) meaning impact play. Love is something we actually ...

Wed Aug 05, 2020 8:04 am • 32 Replies • 12739 Views

I desperately need advice

"After a day spent drinking with no food or water, ...."

i've never met a reasonable or responsible drunk, daddy or sub. It seems to me that neither of you were in control of your faculties. This ...

Wed Aug 05, 2020 7:28 am • 19 Replies • 5580 Views

Cultural differences

"... sadly my experiences are very mixed particularly in how I am approached , when is it ever polite to correct someone’s spelling after a few messages "

Ah, wow, i'm sorry you encountered that. ...

Tue Aug 04, 2020 10:54 pm • 4 Replies • 1692 Views