I'm a swing dancer (specifically Lindy Hop) and, while I learned to lead first and still do occasionally, I've found following to be one of the best feelings in the world. I'm just able to let go, respond to my leader, and get spun around a bunch.

It seems like the creators of the cage really want to be inclusive of all genders (which I really appreciate) but the language about gender on this site still needs some updates. Below I've listed some of the current terms and my thoughts on them.

Granted, you become a doctor but you have to watch 80% of your patients die.

I wish I would never hurt people.

What’s your favorite blog on the cage? Why do you love it?

Hi! I identify as a submissive and I had an interaction today that made me think. I was at a shoe store and an employee measured me for shoes then put them on my feet.