Home-made toys? Yay/Nay? Suggestions?

Look or ask around for used candles-hot wax is fun and versatile.

Find a third playmate. Ask them to bring dinner. And some favorite toys, including themselves.

Thrift stores and tack (equestria ...

Wed Feb 26, 2020 3:36 am • 19 Replies • 9566 Views

So yea that just happened...

To clarify: I did not mean professionally as in I accept payments. I don't and never have. Contracts are not just for money matters-if you want to involve money-you do you. I don't judge, I do what fe ...

Wed Feb 26, 2020 3:12 am • 32 Replies • 11855 Views

So yea that just happened...

Hi Shea,

I'm sorry to read what happened to you. That is not BDSM, it is abuse. I find it deeply troubling and offensive both on a personal level and as a professionally as a practitioner.

Plea ...

Wed Feb 26, 2020 3:08 am • 32 Replies • 11855 Views

Books on BDSM.

Oh, and the Story of O. Classic must-read, Anne Desclos writing as Pauline Reage

Tue Feb 25, 2020 4:17 am • 16 Replies • 16067 Views

Books on BDSM.

Hands down: Beauty series by Anne Rice under the pen name Anne Rampling.

Tue Feb 25, 2020 4:12 am • 16 Replies • 16067 Views

*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

Hi! Consider me introduced.

Tue Feb 25, 2020 3:51 am • 3258 Replies • 1116282 Views

clamps that stay on, but aren't too "extreme" for beginner

I'm with Djinni, I like the aesthetic and simplicity of hemp rope and wooden clothespins. They're also pretty forgiving for a beginner.

Tue Feb 25, 2020 3:46 am • 12 Replies • 6850 Views

To everyone

This is the internet. People ghost because they have lives. I do. Not intentionally but I'm a busy professional and when someone wants to be in communication they make it known-by communicating, until ...

Tue Feb 25, 2020 3:29 am • 35 Replies • 13972 Views