I have been in a casual arrangement with my Dom for just over 3 years. He was upfront when we started that he didn't want anything more than a casual/fwb . I dated others as did he. He also lived over 2 hours away but worked in the city I lived.

IowaDom...

I know i need tomtalk to him...i am just not sure i am ready for his response...

IowaDom...

Being poly was never discused....what was discused was that is was ok to do our own thing...in the begining i saw and dated ohers but as time went on i just wasnt finding that connection ...