Did I misread my Dom?

Charlesutter...

I have asked why and have gotten no response... I have not seen him so I sent an email... But I have not reached out to him in 5 days and he did not stay when he came and got his th ...

Wed Mar 17, 2021 4:25 am • 32 Replies • 11275 Views

Did I misread my Dom?

*UPDATE* (March 15)

this arrangement has ended... Last week I called him out on something he did that upset me...today he came and got his personal belongings from my place... Did not take his lapt ...

Tue Mar 16, 2021 8:08 am • 32 Replies • 11275 Views

Did I misread my Dom?

Umberlee...

My heart has already seen things that he does not... It is a question I need to ask myself whether I can continue as is or if I need to walk away...I made assumptions that he was moving ...

Mon Jan 18, 2021 9:37 pm • 32 Replies • 11275 Views

Did I misread my Dom?

Miki..

Yes after 3 years he is still wants the "no commitment" but has told me if I need a relationship/commitment than he is ok with me finding that

Mon Jan 18, 2021 9:16 pm • 32 Replies • 11275 Views

Did I misread my Dom?

MrFulman...

Thank you for a Doms point of view...

I've let my vanilla friends define what the relationship should be when they don't have an understanding of the lifestyle... That I'm not being ...

Mon Jan 18, 2021 8:38 pm • 32 Replies • 11275 Views

Did I misread my Dom?

Tthomas...

That is what I am questioning... Whether or not I am able to continue as a casual/FWB when I have feelings for him...I'm not sure if I'll be able to separate the 2...I may have to stop ...

Mon Jan 18, 2021 7:13 pm • 32 Replies • 11275 Views

Did I misread my Dom?

I have been in a casual arrangement with my Dom for just over 3 years. He was upfront when we started that he didn't want anything more than a casual/fwb . I dated others as did he. He also lived o ...

Mon Jan 18, 2021 5:08 pm • 32 Replies • 11275 Views

Sub-space?

I have found what works for me is to be blindfolded and have my ear buds in with music on...this allows me to just focus on the sensations such as being being flogged/whipped/canned...i don't know wha ...

Tue Nov 03, 2020 11:31 pm • 10 Replies • 4071 Views

when your Dom wants to explore with someone new

IowaDom...

I know i need tomtalk to him...i am just not sure i am ready for his response...

Wed Feb 12, 2020 4:12 am • 22 Replies • 9516 Views

when your Dom wants to explore with someone new

IowaDom...

Being poly was never discused....what was discused was that is was ok to do our own thing...in the begining i saw and dated ohers but as time went on i just wasnt finding that connection ...

Wed Feb 12, 2020 3:44 am • 22 Replies • 9516 Views