So… anyone here have advice on how to make your own bdsm toys?

A power cable about 4 feet long can be made into a good whip. Make it into a loop with the plugs together. Use duct tape to tape about 1 foot of the open end together. Hold that end and swing. Ma ...

Fri Nov 17, 2023 4:58 pm • 16 Replies • 2438 Views

incorporating bdsm into every day life and living

Not wearing panties outside the house , whenever possible.

Tue Jun 06, 2023 7:59 pm • 16 Replies • 4353 Views

Homemade Flogging devices

There are lots of things that can be made at home with inexpensive things that are easy to get. My favourites are power cords, phone cables and window spline.
The most kinky thing about them is thi ...

Thu Jun 16, 2022 7:53 pm • 14 Replies • 4473 Views

Getting used to drinking piss

There are some types of piss play that are less intense than drinking the liquid. One of them is just dipping or wetting a finger and tasting it. The other is smelling it. The first piss in the mo ...

Thu Jun 09, 2022 10:37 pm • 53 Replies • 22026 Views

Getting used to drinking piss

If one is concerned about health effects, having a sub just rinse his or her mouth out with piss might be solution. I think the mental effect would be the same.

Mon Apr 25, 2022 9:45 pm • 53 Replies • 22026 Views

Please explain your choice

Thank you to all those who replied I get the point about harassment by people who are not paid members. The trade off is that some non-paid members are here to seriously talk and possibly meet p ...

Mon May 04, 2020 1:51 am • 10 Replies • 5194 Views

Please explain your choice

I am a little puzzled when I try to send a message and see this " XXX wishes not to receive messages from new people who are not subscribed." I would like to hear from members who have made this ch ...

Sun May 03, 2020 5:17 am • 10 Replies • 5194 Views

Experience Needed

It may sound strange , But I learned a lot years ago talking with experienced submissive women. They were quite open with what gave them pleasure and what did not . One in particular described in d ...

Mon Apr 20, 2020 9:13 pm • 14 Replies • 5018 Views

Online training? Seriously?

Offers by online dominants and submissives are not uncommon on the Cage and other sites. Right now the opportunities to start a new relationship are few and far between. There are no places to meet in ...

Tue Mar 24, 2020 10:02 pm • 47 Replies • 17084 Views

Humiliation and degradation.

Humiliation and degradation are highly dependent on the subject. Humiliation is in the mind. The same task may humiliate one submissive and have no effect on another. I usually have to experiment with ...

Mon Mar 16, 2020 4:40 am • 17 Replies • 8221 Views