The difference between submissive and slave?

That's easy enough to answer. Anyone sub or Dom that thinks it. I have run into that judgemental thinking before during and after. I have been told the dumbest things by people who fail to understand ...

Sat Nov 14, 2020 4:01 pm • 17 Replies • 5930 Views

The difference between submissive and slave?

The way I like to explain the difference is that a submissive will strive to become the best version of themselves for their Dominant, whereas a slave will become whatever their Master wants..


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Sat Nov 14, 2020 3:57 pm • 17 Replies • 5930 Views

Help! Preparing for punishment....

In my experience, that's why I'm deliberately inattentive and forgetful. I am not a full time Sub but as a Maso-girl I crave the paddle.

If I really want a flogging (again the whole raison-d'etr ...

Sun Nov 01, 2020 5:51 pm • 27 Replies • 10834 Views

When you don't fit into a defined Dom or Sub category

Without knowing which needs aren't being met or which side of your sub nature so to speak. You need to be honest with your Dom and talk to him and explain your feelings/needs/wants. It is then up to H ...

Sun Nov 01, 2020 7:08 am • 6 Replies • 2146 Views

Re: Help! Preparing for punishment....

I am new to the BDSM lifestyle and I am to be punished for not paying attention. I have been forgetful and I have not been the most attentive to direction or detail. I am to see my Master tomorrow and ...

Sun Nov 01, 2020 7:05 am • 27 Replies • 10834 Views

Judgemental people

Yet I am told he could kill me if he so desires!
Not sure if you brought this up due to concern for safety or simply pointing out that he can if he wants too knowing in all likelihood he won't.

"I ...

Tue Oct 27, 2020 2:23 am • 55 Replies • 14528 Views

Judgemental people

I've experienced judgment, and borderline if not actual bullying, on this site when it comes to some things, some are kink related and some were specific to me in the context of those kinks ...

The ...

Tue Oct 27, 2020 12:26 am • 55 Replies • 14528 Views

Judgemental people

[quote="shortylotus"]It does seem like there are a lot of people who are judgemental towards brats. They act like we are evil soul sucking critters of the bdsm world. We take our victims at gun poin ...

Tue Oct 27, 2020 12:20 am • 55 Replies • 14528 Views

Judgemental people

Buts it's more then that.
.let's use me as an example. When Owned He sets my limits, I am his property. I enter into that relationship knowing this! He picks what I wear if he desires. Yet I am tol ...

Mon Oct 26, 2020 12:20 pm • 55 Replies • 14528 Views

Parenting and Privacy in BDSM

Unfortunately I believe that no matter how hard you try its like a weird force of nature that your child will find a toy at some point
Example: I went outside to find my neighbor giving me a very d ...

Sun Oct 25, 2020 6:52 pm • 7 Replies • 4856 Views