Exploring my sexuality while dealing with genital dysphoria

Hello,

What you are experienced is pretty normal. Sexuality is fluid and quite complex especially when going through transition. Before I thought of myself as straight because thats how I was suppo ...

Sun May 23, 2021 11:19 pm • 7 Replies • 4996 Views

Question for Female Dommes and chime in anyone please

Hello,

Here are my thoughts:

1. Being called a „Dominant Bitch“ is not an appropriate way to address any dominant even when I knew the guy.

2. People talking like that are not always intenti ...

Sun May 23, 2021 10:29 pm • 30 Replies • 12103 Views

Superheroine/Villainess

Cosplay is amazing. So fun jumping into a superhero role and play your fantasies out.

Sat May 04, 2019 4:34 am • 9 Replies • 5502 Views

Online vs in the flesh

Both has it advantages and challenges. Online is usually easier and more comfortable to do. It can feel much safer and easier to start than building up he courage to do the same in the flesh. If thing ...

Wed May 01, 2019 6:16 pm • 11 Replies • 7224 Views

How did you get or pick your screen(or lifestyle) name?

I spent quite a while working on my screen name. I am a natural redhead and an kinda cute or at least imagine I am so redcutie was born. When getting a gmail address redcutie20 was one of the few stil ...

Wed Mar 20, 2019 9:29 am • 267 Replies • 116005 Views

Males in chastity

Great Topic :p

I guess I can also contribute to it even coming from a different perspective. I was on long term chasity two times; one 3 months and the other time 4 months, both with a dom. The fir ...

Wed May 16, 2018 12:11 am • 30 Replies • 32005 Views

Books on BDSM.

Hello

Not exactly fantasy but I really love the Brie Series from Red Phoenix. So fun to read and so educational. One of my doms got me into reading it and I love it <3

Fri May 11, 2018 9:22 pm • 16 Replies • 16153 Views

how do u define hardcore?

Hello Kim

I also think its neither neccessary nor easy to define hardcore. To a degree hard/softcore varies from person to person. What is extreme to one might be pretty normal for another pers ...

Fri May 11, 2018 9:20 pm • 9 Replies • 5587 Views

Moments of doubts

Hello Liliac

Yeah the initial enthusiasm is an amazing feeling and its common to dampen after some time. I think d/s is like everything else in life where you feel extremely excited in the begi ...

Thu May 10, 2018 8:09 pm • 15 Replies • 10577 Views

Moments of doubts

I agree Masterneil77722. I was open and honest with my feelings and found out later that he wasn't. I felt hurt and betrayed. I gave him a chance to be honest about what he really wanted, trying to s ...

Thu May 10, 2018 8:02 pm • 15 Replies • 10577 Views