Judgemental people

I find it odd that when people step into the kink, Bdsm, D/s world, their expectations of human beings becomes one if thinking everyone is welcoming, open, tolerant, kind of like a unicorn.
Human bei ...

Tue Jan 18, 2022 4:37 am • 55 Replies • 14616 Views

Did I misread my Dom?

He just gave you a collar after three years? He definitely was having his cake and eating it too.

@charlesutter

People give gifts to others for many reasons:

to buy their love or affection
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Sat Dec 11, 2021 12:28 pm • 32 Replies • 12063 Views

Did I misread my Dom?

I know this post is almost a year gone. I would like to add to the thoughts already expressed. A Dom goes out of their way to make a sub want them, desire them, be constantly hot for them.
It IS tha ...

Sat Dec 11, 2021 12:17 pm • 32 Replies • 12063 Views

Aftercare While Long Distance

The obvious answer is:
Have you asked your sub what they would like, what would make them feel safe, what do they need?
This should be a talk when you two are sitting down relaxed and as equals.
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Sat Dec 11, 2021 10:58 am • 10 Replies • 10699 Views

A little nervous

Hard left there @detached. Sounds like OP is nervous about domming and wondering how to initiate… I think walking into the bedroom with a strap on is gonna send somebody running for the hills if not e ...

Sat Dec 11, 2021 10:50 am • 8 Replies • 3789 Views

punishments to deal with playful Sub

I’ve always found that a good punishment either in person or through communication is not talking or responding.

One thing to push buttons but want a punishment, ok, will chat with you in a couple ...

Mon Sep 20, 2021 2:40 pm • 32 Replies • 18931 Views

punishments to deal with playful Sub

The silent treatment is emotional abuse. I am suffering right this very moment because of being subjected to it for two years.

I realized I have a significant family member that does it and has be ...

Mon Sep 20, 2021 2:34 pm • 32 Replies • 18931 Views

Just 4 fun: Music. What are you listening to right now?

80's hair bands music on YouTube. Endless streaming through a mini Google. Who does not understand a thing I try and explain to it....😂🤣

Mon Sep 20, 2021 1:55 pm • 261 Replies • 42477 Views

Ads

I noticed someone mentioned the ads?


The only ads are over to the right, very unobtrusive, and I like to tap on some of them and look sometimes.

I saw the comment, not sure what ads the post ...

Mon Sep 20, 2021 1:50 pm • 57 Replies • 19163 Views

Thoughts on Fetlife

*community what aff is to the swinging community.....it's a *hit show. It's a place where wanna be kinksters (and some real ones) go to express their narcissism, and promote their onlyfans professiona ...

Mon Sep 20, 2021 1:43 pm • 57 Replies • 19163 Views