Help! Preparing for punishment....

I am terrified for you!!

But yes, I do think you should continue with the routine, as variance, unless you have a punishment protocol, which it sounds like you do not, could be seen as the most ob ...

Sun Nov 01, 2020 7:45 am • 27 Replies • 11202 Views

Thoughts on BDSM Bars

I first just wanted to know how other felt about these places. But needed to clarify based on your question/statement.

Maybe I am just getting old and overprotective, but I worry about the young p ...

Sat Oct 31, 2020 3:46 pm • 25 Replies • 6723 Views

Thoughts on BDSM Bars

In truth, I think you can justify it, but I also don’t think it’s wise. You’d need a regular Dom/me or team of Dom/me’s you could hire, and if it’s not a bdsm club the novelty of it could easily wear ...

Sat Oct 31, 2020 6:18 am • 25 Replies • 6723 Views

Thoughts on BDSM Bars

@shahh

No, THIS place, to which I am referring, they were not light and playful, nor was there a set limit to the count. And many girls would be new and get wasted and challenge the top because "th ...

Sat Oct 31, 2020 6:16 am • 25 Replies • 6723 Views

Thoughts on BDSM Bars

You just described Bondage-a-Go-Go, which ran every Wednesday night in San Francisco for twenty-seven years until Covid 19 shut it down along with everything else. It worked just fine. No major issues ...

Fri Oct 30, 2020 7:05 pm • 25 Replies • 6723 Views

Thoughts on BDSM Bars

I have been in a variety of circles and communities in relation to BDSM for close to 20 years, and the general consensus seems to be that sober is best. Especially in the beginning when meeting people ...

Fri Oct 30, 2020 8:02 am • 25 Replies • 6723 Views

Which traits make a Dominant or submissive attractive?

wow Bunny. I agree with much of that.

Mon Oct 26, 2020 6:16 pm • 33 Replies • 10525 Views

Submissive mantras

A mantra for me also has nothing to do with subspace, but more about setting me up for the day. It is blended in with my protocols so it really part of my morning routine. I also repeat one to myself ...

Sun Oct 25, 2020 10:52 am • 6 Replies • 7423 Views

I am a virgin, but I still know that I'm submissive..

Submission isn’t all about sex. And for some BDSM and submission is a bedroom kink only.
Honestly, I wouldn’t hunt for a Dom to take your virginity, I would absolutely do that with someone you have ...

Fri Oct 23, 2020 7:51 pm • 5 Replies • 2732 Views