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What to look for in a dominant

Master John97
5 years ago • Jan 6, 2019

What to look for in a dominant

Master John97 • Jan 6, 2019
Masters Creed

Above all else He cherishes His slave, in the knowledge that the gift she gives Him is the greatest gift of all.

He is strict and takes full advantage of the power given to Him, but knows to share the pleasure that comes from that precious gift.

He is in control of himself first and foremost, so that He may control others. As a stern and demanding Master, He can cause His slave real tears.

As the consummate lover, He will kiss the tears away without stepping out of character.

In times of trouble, a Master is a supportive partner and friend, never forgetting that this is a loving relationship between two caring individuals.

He is quick to understanding the difference between fantasy and reality.

He would never ask His slave to put Him before her career or family just to satisfy His own pleasure.

To win His slaves mind, body, soul and love. He must first earn her trust. He will show His slave humor, kindness and warmth.

He must always show her that His guidance and tutoring is knowledgeable deserving of her attention, that this is a man she can learn from and trust in His discretion.

He is romantic enough to be protective and gallant. When called upon, He will fight for His lady's honor. He proves to her that He is someone that she can lean on and depend on.

When it comes time to teach His slave her lessons in obedience, He is a strong and unyielding professor. He will except no flaw, nothing less then perfection from His student.

Never does he use discipline without a good reason . When He does, its always with a careful and knowledgeable hand.

He is always open to communication and discussion, always ready to hear her wants and needs. He is patient, taking time to learn her limits and knowing that as the trust for Him grows, so will they.

He never has to demand ritual behavior. She responds to Him out of want to please Him. Compliance from wanting to please, not the fear of punishment.

He understands the fragile nature of her mind, body and soul and never violates that trust given to Him.

He is secure enough to laugh at Himself and the absurdities of life. Open minded enough to learn new things. Strong enough to grow.

His tools are mind, body, soul, spirit and love. He understands that each partner gains from pleasuring the other. And both of them know that love and trust are the only bindings that truly hold.
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Villanelle​(staff)Inline member
Villanelle​(staff)Inline member
5 years ago • Jan 7, 2019
Villanelle​(staff)Inline member • Jan 7, 2019
I second MasterBear. It's worth adding that the M/f is not the default. However, I appreciate the sentiment behind much of the writing.
MasterBrads painpet​(sub female){OWNED}
5 years ago • Jan 9, 2019
I'm very new to the lifestyle and this sounds like the perfect Dom. I had a Master for a short time of only a month. In just a short time the trust was strong. When it started to slip away it was very hard. Even though there were only 2 short session during the 1st one Master took me to subspace and I heard from others it is rare for a newbie to feel that much trust in your Master so soon. I hope I can find a Master with just half the qualities mentioned.