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Dominant women searching for a young male sub criteria

blondecub
4 years ago • Mar 28, 2019

Dominant women searching for a young male sub criteria

blondecub • Mar 28, 2019
Being an experience sub to a dominant woman who not only supported me financially but actually cared for me, I'm curious as to what dominant women these days are seeking when considering male subs to own?
Byrdie​(switch female){rl only}
4 years ago • Mar 29, 2019
Within 7 years of my age, in either direction.
Living within the Puget Sound area (near Seattle).
Comfortable with their masculinity.
Available for a publicly recognized relationship with me.
Aware of their racial and gender privilege and working to even the playing field.
In therapy, have been in therapy, or planning to be in therapy.
Having last been released from incarceration (prison, jail, whatever) 10 or more years ago.
In recovery for 2 years or more if an addict.
Not an evangelist.
High school graduate, at least.
Reads for pleasure.
Employed, even as a temp.
Has their own local home situation, even if it involves roommates.
Available to meet in person at least twice a month.
Compatible work and free-time schedules.
No cats.
No kids.

There's more that'd be icing on the cake, but that's my minimum.
MasterBear​(other butch)
4 years ago • Mar 29, 2019
MasterBear​(other butch) • Mar 29, 2019
My list is pretty simple:


Must be financially solvent.
No young kids--- - as in they cant have young children. 20+ok.
No drinking, drugging, using
Must have experience.
No doormats
Must be driven
Must bring something to my table
Must be well spoken
Intelligent
MUST understand the concept of service that is NOT based in the self


I have more but my finger is tired....
MissBonnie​(dom female){oz}
4 years ago • Mar 29, 2019
Hmm lets see,....

wants what, I offer re kink wise. Older than 30. Able to free think on MY BEHALF, I do not micro manage and I am not your Mother. No drugs or Alcohol.. Not married or in a committed relationship, although it has to be noted I am poly in relationships (I am aware this sounds lopsided, its open for discussion). Self supporting, non live in. Able to met regularly at mine or his/hers. Not take life to serious, easy going, laughter prone, friendship a must. Takes a breath, thats the major of them.
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