*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

I hope you all had a great weekend! If you're new to THE CAGE please say hello here

Greetings all.

I’m a newer dom just looking to explore the online relationship aspect as of right now. Willing to chat with just about anyone. Though please check your grammar. Irritates me when I have to decipher what someone is trying to say.

Welcome SirRed! And welcome to everyone who has joined us so far this week!

I've been meaning to get on here and introduce myself for a while, but life happens unfortunately and seems to get in the way. But neither here nor there right?

I'm a 23 year old bisexual dominant, who put away her dom side when she got married to her awesome (vanilla) husband. Well, now that we've achieved a level of sorts in the (Understanding that I have different interests than most vanilla people do) he understands that I need to let out my Domme side that's getting fed up with being pushed back.

Anyways, I have been a dominant for 5 years. I would love nothing more than to find someone online who wants to become a real life sub eventually. But before I continue any further I want to make it clear that I dont need another man in my life. That role has been filled. I want more than anything to have another woman in my life since that void has been there for a long while. So hello to all and I hope to hear something interesting from someone soon!

Sunday, July 14th made a week that I've been a member of The Cage community and I'm really grateful for the connections that I've made in such a short amount of time.

With that being said, I'm 'Shie. Pronounced like "she". Newer to the life and growing everyday. My experience is a bit strange in regards to time line, as I have had an online LDR with a submissive man for about 12 years. Yes, that's quite a bit of time, but totally different experience than being together in the flesh and so with that I am rather new to physical aspects of BDSM. I recently (September 2018-April 2019) ended a 3 year relationship. It took the course of the aforementioned months to truly end the relationship. We had discussed BDSM and polyamory. We had engaged in light impact play and ass training, and had made plans to attend local events. He moved in and was a rather pleasurable maid servant and sex slave in my home. However, he was very resistant to growing and I began coming to terms with our incompatibility, thus ending the relationship. My earlier sexual experiences have been vast, but still nothing comparable to what I am seeking in regards to my wants, needs, and personal fantasies.

My hopes are that this community connects me to individuals in a way that leads to further my self discovery and growth in the lifestyle. I've gained a wonderful friend and mentor, but would also hope to have more mentoring from others along the way. Additionally, I'm currently enjoying training a subbie for 24/7 TPE and have my heart set on bringing another into O/our dynamic who is currently going through a vetting and negotiation process.

Thank you for reading! And thank you to those who have made me feel extremely welcomed!

Thank you for the intros - welcome!

Hi I am a 56 year old Male Discplinarian and HoH in the Domestic Discipline lifestyle. I have been in this lifestyle for over 20 years. I reside in Minnesota. The search is on for my TIH. So happy to have found this place.

Hey there, I'm Lexual Romance. I work on the Off The Cuffs podcast and just joined this site. Hope it's fun, thanks!

I like how you had to add the warning to fend off dom men lol.. welcome to the cage Lexual.