Lessons for sub on giving Oral?

The Number one Sir​(dom male) • Apr 9, 2020

Great advice everyone; thanks for the feedback

J.

House Talion​(dom male) • Apr 20, 2020

Her skill for your pleasure, practice makes perfect. Coach her into concentrating on your tip once fully erect while you compliment her progress with multiple forms of physical touch.

DrKrall • Apr 20, 2020

Very interesting subject.
I've always had a hard time cumming when recieving oral. But that's ok, since I like it so much.
The harder it is to cum, the longer I can get sucked. I usually tell the sucke though, so they don't think it's their fault.

Something I've noticed is 3 or 4 times I've met girls bragging about how good they are at giving blow jobs, but oddly enough the same girls have given me the worst ones. I've had first timers doing it better than these experts. Has anyone else noticed the same?

Bunnie • Apr 21, 2020

I think a trap that I see many girls fall into is thinking that if only they can perfect a “technique” they’ll perform the *greatest blowjob on earth*. You hear it often... girls bragging about their blowjob skills.

Listening to, following instruction, and paying attention to “feedback,” rather than assuming you know what will blow someone’s mind has been the most valuable thing I’ve been taught.

The problem is that from what I’ve seen, so many men are just so happy to have a female even going near their cock... they don’t want to “push their luck” by offering suggestions... so the cycle continues.

The Number one Sir​(dom male) • Apr 21, 2020

Yeah I have noticed that as well. I remember this one ex I had, she was a bit of a prude but stunningly attractive, she ended up giving me an amazing BJ which I didn't expect.
Conversely other women who have boasted have been humdrum...

The Number one Sir​(dom male) • Apr 21, 2020

One thing to note is how much she seems to enjoy it herself, I try and pay attention. Her sounds and reactions, if she's loving it then I push a little further and give more direction. If she's keen she will follow willingly and it will be more enjoyable for both of us.

YaGottaBeKittenMe​(sub female)​{Daddy} • Apr 21, 2020

Look up "How to give a blowjob" from jokestrap sexy time on youtube. Lots of great tips, that you can either give as she's enjoying you or have her watch. It worked great for me and has greatly improved my skills. I now get compliments all the time from My Bull.

notavanilla • Apr 22, 2020

I am a guy and I am not bi but straight. I had some gf's that really knew how to suck but they all gagged at times. Not often but sometimes. I had a gf in
Europe when I lived there and she complained about sucking. I said its no big deal. I give head to her but these excuses.
I watched a copy of Deep Throat and saw Linda Lovelace suck it all the way down and when I thought of it that the only thing that stops a average woman is that gag reflex in the throat. So I thought what if a person could overcome this reflex? So I got out a 8 inch dildo that was thick. I got a large pan and some towels and a comfortable wooden chair. I made sure the chair was not on any carpet. I sat in the chair and put that dildo in my mouth and pushed it back enough to touch my tonsils and I gagged. I did not give up but instead just kept touching it and gagging. I put together a program to get this done. I would suck on that dildo for 30 minutes a day, 6 days a week. It took several weeks to get it past the throat. It took 3 months to get it fully down my throat without any gag at all and keep it there for 5 minutes all the way in my mouth and down my throat.
Later after I got this 3 months finished I saw this gf and I took out the dildo and put it in my mouth and pushed it all the way so that no part of it could be seen. I then took it out and did it again and even waited to take it out. No gagging at all. She was stunned.
Not impossible to get this problem behind you. Yes you really gag a lot at first but eventually you get that reflex settled down and then get the whole throat settled down and it's no problem to suck it. You have to watch your teeth to not scrape your teeth on it. It is best to learn to do this with a dildo and not on a real cock. You could bite a real cock or even break it. Use a dildo for this and one that is shaped like a real cock.
You may want to try this technique. I do not suggest that you do it more than 30 minutes. Also the throat can get a bit raw when you first start doing this. Don't go more than 30 minutes until you start to get a bit used to it.
I haven't put a dildo in my mouth or cock in my mouth at all for at least 3 years. I could pick one up and put it right down the first try right now. Once you got this you got this and can suck and you will not gag again.

Let me know if this helps.

notavanilla
Funny the things you do when you have a little free time.

Onlinedomguy​(dom male) • Apr 22, 2020

For me, I like lots of teasing. I like feeling her lips as she slowly moves from my head downwards. I don't always cum from oral but it does not matter to me as I enjoy it. I especially enjoy it when I know she does. One idea would be to watch some porn together of blow jobs and see which ones appeal to you both. There are so many ways to play with a cock orally. Also, having her play with your ass as she sucks you, licks you, swallows you can be very hot, at least for me.

But I do not think you should worry about not cumming, as long as you are enjoying it and she enjoys pleasing you that way, it isn't so bad.

FeistyMinx​(sub female)​{HAPPYL❤VE} • Apr 22, 2020

What MissBonnie said!!!