jinxforpain wrote:
I hate anal but my bf just expressed interest in fucking my ass. I told him we could work up to it and meant that. The next time we fucked, he fingered my ass while pounding my pussy. I really really enjoyed it at the time, but my asshole still burns two days later. What do I do?
What is it about anal that you "hate? " i think answering that is key to finding out the "what do I do?" part of your query.
For me, there are two distinct sides to anal, the physical and the psychological. i'm a complete bottom, so i'm receptive on both counts. Not every Top who has fucked me had the same method or skill. i've had guys who just rammed in without a clue or concern for how that affected me (though some really like that). That approach doesn't fit who i am either physically or psychologically. But i know that's me.
Other Tops/Doms take great care and relish the process of seducing and opening Their bottom. taking possession of it and making it Their own. That, for me is both a physical and psychological approach that results in a whole lot more than just the physical act of anal penetration.