2 years ago • Sep 25, 2020
exploringsubmissive(sub female) • Sep 25, 2020
I have used OkCupid for a few years now. I've had some very good experiences through it, although my area of the world is a bit more open to kinky people than some others.
I found that saying things like "I'm the s in the D/s helped", because those that know what it means knew right away what I was saying, while those that are completely vanilla would get confused and ask about it. I would explain, because I'm pretty open, and sometimes that led to really interesting conversations, sometimes it led to unmatching.
My last long term relationship came from OkCupid though. He was building up his Dom side, and we worked quite well together, but he was overwhelmed with work and felt like he couldn't handle our relationship as well, so he ended things.