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What are some non-sexual traits or things that turn you guys on?

Marchioness​(sub female)
3 years ago • Dec 23, 2020
Marchioness​(sub female) • Dec 23, 2020
Patience
Restraint
Calm
Intellect and humour
Total focus
Protective and possessive
Territorial
A wicked smile
Chivalry
Persistence
Décolletage on women.
I can find everything to love about the man who owns me, totally and utterly.

And effort.
The sexiest thing in the world is effort.
HardnCruel​(dom male)
3 years ago • Dec 23, 2020
HardnCruel​(dom male) • Dec 23, 2020
Years ago driving along a road I happen to see an overweight lady walking along now she was not attractive but something about her walk invited attention, all of us are attracted to someone and we can never know just what that is till we see, hear, smell or touch it.
MountaintopMaster
3 years ago • Dec 23, 2020
MountaintopMaster • Dec 23, 2020
*Plans to get more piercings and tattoos in 2021*

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beard n tats​(dom male)
3 years ago • Dec 23, 2020
beard n tats​(dom male) • Dec 23, 2020
1. Sundresses and cowboy boots
2. Freckles
3. Musical talent
4. Confidence
5. Intelligence
6. Integrity
7. Loyalty
8. Sobriety
9. That pin-up girl look
10. Eyeglasses

Not listed in any particular order.
Defender​(dom male)
3 years ago • Dec 23, 2020
Defender​(dom male) • Dec 23, 2020
A pulse.

(Well, you said you wanted a sense of humour).


Oh, and someone who spells humour the way we Brits do.🙃
poppyclaire​(sub female)
3 years ago • Dec 24, 2020
poppyclaire​(sub female) • Dec 24, 2020
There is something about a man who smells good.

Consistency
Practicality
Bowed legs (blame my mother)
Nice hands
Corny sense of humour
And then some men just have a way of sitting that makes you wanna climb them
Soulful Sunflower​(sub female)
3 years ago • Dec 24, 2020
1. Intelligence.
2. Confident but humble.
3. Sense of humour.
4. Integrity.
5. Alluring.
6. Deep authoritative voice (the kind that has you weak at the knees when he speaks)
7. Stands & sits confidently (like he knows he's in charge)
8. Tall.
9. Over 50+
10. Sliver fox.
11. Rolled up shirt sleeves.
12. Arm veins & strong hands.
13. Hairy chest.
14. His smell.
15. Kindness.
16. Passionate.
17. Expressive eyes.
18. Mischievous smile.
19. Charismatic.
20. Affectionate.
21. Protective.

Oops my list got very long very quickly,I'm not asking for much 🙄😜
Miki​(masochist female)
3 years ago • Dec 24, 2020
Miki​(masochist female) • Dec 24, 2020
Not particularly picky but I have to saw a well-read guy. An intellectual sort who thinks a rainy (or snowy) Sunday afternoon is best spent discussing books, or even philosophy over tea, coffee or in autumn, cider.

something many would find boring-- I find stimulating in a non-hormonal sense.