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DanielBelum​(dom male)
2 months ago • 02/17/2021 12:49 pm

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DanielBelum​(dom male) • 02/17/2021 12:49 pm
Recently on our podcast ( dansarani and I talked about the fact that she is approaching 20 years in my collar in our real time 24x7 power exchange. We talked about if after that much time if being a sub/slave is easy, or even, monotonous.

What do you expect long term power exchange to look like (or if you are already there, what is different than in the beginning)?
2 months ago • 02/17/2021 1:32 pm
Bunnie • 02/17/2021 1:32 pm
@ DanielBelum,

Wow! 20 years is amazing. I tried to sit with that thought and imagine how I would expect it to look, and honestly have no idea. Still being so early to the beginning of this path, I can’t even fathom it. All I can hope for is that it feels like home.
House Talion​(dom male)
2 months ago • 02/17/2021 2:32 pm
House Talion​(dom male) • 02/17/2021 2:32 pm
I expect it to look like experience, time well spent, and unconditional trust for sone- while also looking like retirement, last will, and medical aides for others
SubtleHush​(sub female)
2 weeks ago • 04/07/2021 2:03 am
SubtleHush​(sub female) • 04/07/2021 2:03 am
Well, I had 6 years twice. But I often say that power exchange is a dance where one leads and one follows.

I imagine after all that time, the dance is seamless. Fluid even. Every step known felt even. Every subtlety (you know I like that word)
captured and felt by both.

I loved a line I heard on the old Bones show in a fantasy episode titled "End in the Beginning ." Someone is trying to buy a business and is asked, how do you know we are doing well? And the man says "business like a good relationship is always boring to the outside world"

I think by 20 years there is so much already understood by you both that the dance (while still amazing) might not even look like a dance to others. But then again, they can't hear your music.
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