MrFulmen
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3 years ago •
Mar 30, 2021
3 years ago •
Mar 30, 2021
Here's how it works.
Cisgender men face massively lower risks around sexuality than people of any other gender. So there are way, way more of us who don't think twice about logging onto a kinky website and going straight to asking around for instant dirty fun.
Moreover, we are insulated enough from the risks that others face that most of us don't even realize those risks exist. When they're pointed out, many of us invest tremendous energy in denying or minimizing them. That means that the horde of men asking for instant dirty fun tends to be doing it in a polyannaish fashion, to be persistently befuddled by why no one (except for other cis men) wants to jump immediately onto their dick, and to stubbornly refuse to do even the simplest things to help non-cismen manage the risks that they face in dating, sex and kink.
So this mob of guys is frustrated, and horny, and committed to the fantasy that if they just find the right website they'll come to the Land of the Nympho Sex Dolls, where women stop worrying about sexual assault, harassment, stalking, slut shaming, stealthing, revenge porn and intimate partner violence. And where trans and nonbinary people exist as exotic fetish objects or not at all.
The Land of the Nympho Sex Dolls does not exist. There are only a few women who don't mind or don't notice the risks they face from dating and sex, and those few women will always have all the cock they want. But even if every one of them sucked ten dicks a day, there would still be a massive backlog of guys desperately hunting for something they are sure they're entitled to that just isn't there.
Y'know what you call that? That's called a market. Of bloody course there are commercial operators lining up to serve that market.
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If you want to separate finance from your kink life, don't act like a customer.
Acknowledge that this isn't simple fun for most people who aren't cis men. Learn a bit about the hazards that you don't have to worry about, and do what you can to minimize them. Seek out, and help to build, communities that prioritize the safety of less privileged people over the gratification of more privileged people. Connect with people as human beings before bringing in the sexy energy or the checklist of fetishes. And learn that when someone makes you an offer that sounds like it comes from the Land of the Nympho Sex Dolls, it's almost certainly a sales pitch.
If you do that, you can build yourself a kinky world where commercial operators are a very small presence. It takes some investment and some patience but, well, it just does. That vision of world where sex and kink are easy and bountiful and uncomplicated and free is a mirage. (Unless you're a man who wants to play with other men. In which case sign yourself up on Recon and knock yourself out.)
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