Dominants of every flavor

ThomasVa • Nov 4, 2023

I want to control her desire.
Her desire should be me.
If she desires me some, then I will have some control.
If she desires me a lot, then I will have a lot of control.

The thing about her desiring me is that I control 100% of me.
I am the only one that can screw that up.

Sincorrigible​(sub female) • Nov 4, 2023

I really love this. I think it makes a lot of sense to me outside of the bedroom context too.

And I love how it encapsulates my thinking on ds synergy and symbiosis.

Nitrev​(dom male) • Nov 4, 2023

If I had to boil it down, I would say her faith is the best way to describe it. I want control not because of the feeling/power it gives me, but because I want to lead to a higher quality of life as well as satisfying my kinks, and I am confident in myself to get us there with the help of a lifestyle slave. In that, it is important that I am someone they can rely on to lead and follow my lead