Give and Take

Give and Take

Little Vixie​(sub female){Mgh30} • Jun 26, 2024

I know in my dynamic with my dom/partner, he doesn't eat pussy. At all. Has never done it. It's been discussed here and there but has yet to happen (not upset by it). With that, he doesn't really ask for head. I'll offer it here and there, but he's maybe asked for it a handful of times.
The question here is, if you know there is something you will not do (like sucking dick or eating pussy), do you still ask your partner to do it to you or do you allow them to offer it?

Like for me, I can't eat pussy. I've thought about it and maybe down the line I might get out of my head and try it, but for rn it's not something that I am able to do (personal). I've started playing with more couples and the men will usually ask if I am fine with their partner going down on me. I wouldn't mind it, but it feels selfish for me to ask for a lady to go down on me if I'm not willing to do it for them.

Anyone have any insite?

vv V vv​(sadist male) • Jun 26, 2024

I don’t eat pussy. I dine upon it. I stick a candle in her belly button, play some light jazz, put on a lobster bib and 7th grade science goggles (safety first) get comfortable between her out stretched legs and proceed to tease and torment until her head implodes.

Hate to sound like a selfish bastard but if she doesn’t give head she doesn’t get any face.

Miki​(masochist female) • Jun 26, 2024

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Not at all selfish. It's a fair arrangement.

It's fine when someone is opposed to doing a certain oral act as long as they do not expect or demand it from their partner. But as always your mileage may vary. In the end, on a case-by-case basis.

TPE dynamics for example: The bottom just does as ordered. It's up to the people involved and their personal preferences. .

Personally I never really cared. I have done both in equal numbers. However, munching on a weiner is an acquired taste / activity for many women outside of the porn industry where a lead-off blow job is a given.
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.. as for the "gentleman's relish" (Spooge) -- I don't mind the taste-- even easier when shot straight down the throat...

alas I drifted off topic once again...

I'mME • Jun 26, 2024

Little Vixie,

Was orel sex discussed before y'all decided to become a relationship? He told you he doesn't muff dive? And you said?
Or is this information that you got afterwards?

How do you feel about it is the important thing..

I'm someone who doesn't have to have an O everytime, the journey can be quite intense] I enjoy it.

However, if I'm giving blow jobs, sometimes there needs to be reciprocation.

Sweet Minx​(sub female) • Jun 27, 2024

I think its a personal preference but as others stated, reciprocity is a wonderful thing. But it's up to each dynamic how they proceed and what's important to them.
I love giving pleasure, so i love going down on him. Making him feel good turns me on so it's a win win. And it's okay with me if it's not returned.
Ive only recieved oral a handful of brief attempts and never got off from it, so maybe it's just that I don't know what Im missing.

InATimelyFashion • Jun 27, 2024

Man that can eat pussy Is a grown Man learn the pussy like a sexy piece of cake. They wanna keep women happy better drop down start licking and eating like it’s honey moon. Just like chemistry and connection if not the same even sexually find someone on same page have the talk about everything before a relationship so find your likes no likes in the lifestyle. But one doing it all other person won’t do a lot ether be done cause it they treat you different even when not even sex like don’t give time of day not willing to romance or take you out every once in a while be done don’t stick around to stay when connection and sex and soul click or not right gotta align in all ways.Be selective who allow in your life. You have right to what you want and yes make good honest thinking getting pleased back in return. Not about women going down on man all the time he gotta keep you happy and appreciate you for you do your part in return respect is a thing.

InATimelyFashion • Jun 27, 2024

Sex goes beyond inserting a dick in a lady's vagina. You might injure or cause her pains if she's not well aroused.

Below are 3 reasons ladies prefer pussy eating/licking to penetration.

1) Pleasure: 95% of women find it more pleasurable and mind-blowing than any other form of romance.

2) Orgasm: Studies have shown that ladies tend to reach sexual climax than dick penetration.

3) Fantasy: Women crave for sex more when a guy is good in pussy eating. They can dish their husbands away just to get wowed by that young man who does magic with his tongue.

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Re: Give and Take

djinni​(dom female){smplylaura} • Jun 27, 2024

Just be upfront and honest about it. “Fair” isn’t necessarily what you’re looking for in this situation. There are women who don’t want or need you to return the favor, it’s more common than you think. I think the thing that bugs me is that the dude is asking if you are ok with it. She should be the one…. Because even if they are her dominant, she should be giving consent. I’d hate to think that she’s being forced into going down on you because he thinks it’s hot. Of course this is all in negotiations… them, you and yours and then the 4 of you. You don’t want unenthusiastic cunninglingus, and you’ll be able to tell!

I'mME • Jun 27, 2024

This idea that you live to make him feel good and somehow that if people have an issue with no reciprocity somehow they DO NOT love making their partner feel good.

It's petty. It's not a dictatorship. Subs serve the Dom and they serve the relationship. It's almost fail proof.

The more a Dom serves the relationship, the more a sub is served who in turn goes deeper I to serving the Dom.

So situations such as the Op brings up, does not boil down to whether someone loves to make their partner happy or please them, thereby making them the 'good' one

And anything else falls under what?


I'm just giving you an insight into that some things aren't that simple.

Sweet Minx​(sub female) • Jun 27, 2024

Yeah.... that's not what I was saying.